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Post: 95595199_31 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:16:43 +0000
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People like them piss me off,hope karma gets their crappy a**. stare

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Post: 95595199_32 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:18:38 +0000
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People like them piss me off,hope karma gets their crappy a**. stare

I do too. I really really do.

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Post: 95595199_33 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:20:47 +0000
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I wouldn't reconnect with them. It sounds like they did you a favor by no longer talking to you. No reason to have toxic people in your life.

Yeah, maybe I'll just try to forget about them. Chances are I won't succeed in actually forgetting them, but I will hopefully manage to never value them as a human again.

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Post: 95595199_34 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:21:41 +0000
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lorryn 96

I think I attract a bunch such as that because I usually try to help people if I know they're upset.
That person was someone I met on Gaia and the friendship just went from there. The other person was from Teamspeak, although he joined acting all upset.

Everyone blew him off so I just wanted to hear him out. And he kept claiming he'd do these terrible things to himself for about a week before apologizing. I never spoke to him again.

The internet is a hard place to gauge honesty. But it's the only place I have any kind of friends on anymore.

It's nice that you're wiling to offer a hand to those in need but it's important to try and maintain a level of distance between yourself and the person to protect yourself from harm and to limit the inevitable emotional attachment they will develop for you.

It is difficult to judge when someone's being dishonest over the Internet but it's not impossible, by paying attention to the way someone talks (the words they use and how they use them) you can fairly accurately gauge their intentions.

Be careful now, I wouldn't want you needlessly exposing yourself to harm.

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Post: 95595199_35 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:23:54 +0000
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lorryn 96

DJ Twissta

I wouldn't reconnect with them. It sounds like they did you a favor by no longer talking to you. No reason to have toxic people in your life.

Yeah, maybe I'll just try to forget about them. Chances are I won't succeed in actually forgetting them, but I will hopefully manage to never value them as a human again.

Forgetting doesn't solve any problems, because sometimes you could see something that reminds you of them and it starts all over. You're angry, that's okay, many people would be in your case. Let it run it's course, but try not to hold onto it. That can be really tempting to do, but it's really draining.

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Post: 95595199_36 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:24:14 +0000
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That's ******** up

The least they could've done was just tell you they weren't acc dead

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Post: 95595199_37 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:28:04 +0000
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lorryn 96

I just wish I had known the signs that they were lying (and still wish I did). My ability to gauge that stuff is worse than I had thought.

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Post: 95595199_38 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:29:00 +0000
Posted: Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:29:00 +0000

ghost zora

That's ******** up

The least they could've done was just tell you they weren't acc dead

I guess my significance to them was much less than their significance to me.

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Post: 95595199_39 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:30:03 +0000
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I wouldn't reconnect with them. It sounds like they did you a favor by no longer talking to you. No reason to have toxic people in your life.

Yeah, maybe I'll just try to forget about them. Chances are I won't succeed in actually forgetting them, but I will hopefully manage to never value them as a human again.

Right now I just feel wound up like one of those small dogs that bark all the time. But I suppose that's the right way to feel, and yet I don't feel like I should feel that way. So confusing.

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Post: 95595199_40 created on Sat, 17 Jan 2015 23:40:43 +0000
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lorryn 96

I just wish I had known the signs that they were lying (and still wish I did). My ability to gauge that stuff is worse than I had thought.

It tends to come with experience. It might be wise to lay off it for a while and look inwards, concentrate on yourself and ignore other people for now