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Post: 94084659_1 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:13:48 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:13:48 +0000

Mentioned she had a birthday recently, before we'd been introduced.
I'm like, "Oh, happy belated birthday. Pretty sure we hadn't met yet then, or I would have said something."
Her: "No, you were here, so..."
Ignores me for the rest of the conversation.

Before this, she mocked me during a practice presentation about how I'd used the word Analogue instead of Agonist. Kainic acid is a structural analogue for glutamic acid as well as an agonist for glutamate receptors, goddammit. I meant what I said.

People told me she could be a little bitchy, but damn. Worse yet, she's perfectly pleasant around the guys in the department.

/rage.

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Post: 94084659_2 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:53:24 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:53:24 +0000

Seems like my type of girl. And by that, I mean "Who cares if she's mean? Just say professional and don't worry about it." And by that, I mean "I don't like her very much though :/"

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Post: 94084659_3 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:53:57 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:53:57 +0000

give her an F
for "******** YOU"

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Post: 94084659_4 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:54:27 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:54:27 +0000

so in other words, she's a brat and i wouldn't touch her with a ten-foot-pole. smile

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Post: 94084659_5 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:54:50 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:54:50 +0000

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give her an F
for "******** YOU"

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Post: 94084659_6 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:55:15 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:55:15 +0000

And worse, you can't complain about her without seeming like you're the bitchy one.

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Post: 94084659_7 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:55:41 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:55:41 +0000

maybe you remind her of an abusive parent or sibling. Every time she sees you, all she can think of is that cracked leather belt.

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Post: 94084659_8 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:57:52 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:57:52 +0000

I don't understand how people live like that really

being nice to people feels so much better like come on

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Post: 94084659_9 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:58:32 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:58:32 +0000

Avoid, avoid!

I would mind if my friends forgot my birthdays, but people who are only casually acquainted shouldn't even have to know/remember one's birthday.

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Post: 94084659_10 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:59:11 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 21:59:11 +0000

act like a b***h get hit like a b***h.

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Post: 94084659_11 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 22:00:25 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 22:00:25 +0000

Shes nice to boys cause she wants the D

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Post: 94084659_12 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 22:59:58 +0000
Posted: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 22:59:58 +0000

R i i v o

Shes nice to boys cause she wants the D

I can only assumes she thinks I'm a threat to her D getting capabilities. She assumes too much though, because I already have all the D I could ever want from my 5-year-long committed relationship.

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Post: 94084659_13 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 23:00:56 +0000
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Anjoulie

Avoid, avoid!

I would mind if my friends forgot my birthdays, but people who are only casually acquainted shouldn't even have to know/remember one's birthday.

I want to, but she works in a lab that I'm really interested in joining. Not sure if I could handle putting up with her s**t for 5+ years though.

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Post: 94084659_14 created on Sun, 14 Sep 2014 16:06:16 +0000
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Seppia

Anjoulie

Avoid, avoid!

I would mind if my friends forgot my birthdays, but people who are only casually acquainted shouldn't even have to know/remember one's birthday.

I want to, but she works in a lab that I'm really interested in joining. Not sure if I could handle putting up with her s**t for 5+ years though.

Awh. sad Will she be there for all that time though?

I'd say if everything else is really where you want to be, join anyway.
You may end up having to establish some baseline of what you won't tolerate from her though.

I didn't have exactly the same problem, but I once decided against joining a lab because I found the attitude of everybody else towards the prof (whenever he wasn't present) so ... depressing.
Maybe that was naive or too idealistic but it really got to me.
It wasn't my sole reason but a part of it.
And in retrospect I'm not always happy with that decision.

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Post: 94084659_15 created on Sun, 14 Sep 2014 16:08:08 +0000
Posted: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 16:08:08 +0000

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I don't understand how people live like that really

being nice to people feels so much better like come on

I don't understand that either.
The sad part is, though, that I have seen people get ahead by doing exactly this.
It's a sick sad world.

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