Hasuki Aatisuto
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- Posted: Tue, 02 Sep 2014 18:11:21 +0000
Hello everyone!
Right now I have a dilemma, and I'm not sure how to proceed.
First, a brief background: I was sick and tired of being single, so I tried various personals sites to see if I could have any luck - OkCupid was one of them. I met a wonderful man through OkCupid and we hit it off really well, and we decided on a second date. However, I last saw him online on August 16th (OkCupid tells you when was the last time he or she has logged on, which is nice), and he has not been online at all ever since. He told me before that date that he would be very busy at work since a couple of other employees as been laid off so he has been working double shifts. I understood and told him to take his time (I'm too nice for my own good, probably).
It's been almost 3 weeks now, and I'm a little worried about him - he hasn't been coming online at all to at least say hello. He did leave me his phone number, though.
I'm not sure if I should leave him a brief message or not (I already did on OkCupid). I mean, I'm still interested in him even now but I don't want to seem like a stalker or anything.
Any advice would be helpful.
Thank you!
Right now I have a dilemma, and I'm not sure how to proceed.
First, a brief background: I was sick and tired of being single, so I tried various personals sites to see if I could have any luck - OkCupid was one of them. I met a wonderful man through OkCupid and we hit it off really well, and we decided on a second date. However, I last saw him online on August 16th (OkCupid tells you when was the last time he or she has logged on, which is nice), and he has not been online at all ever since. He told me before that date that he would be very busy at work since a couple of other employees as been laid off so he has been working double shifts. I understood and told him to take his time (I'm too nice for my own good, probably).
It's been almost 3 weeks now, and I'm a little worried about him - he hasn't been coming online at all to at least say hello. He did leave me his phone number, though.
I'm not sure if I should leave him a brief message or not (I already did on OkCupid). I mean, I'm still interested in him even now but I don't want to seem like a stalker or anything.
Any advice would be helpful.
Thank you!
