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Post: 93871005_1 created on Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:14:15 +0000
Posted: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:14:15 +0000

Dated this guy for like 5 months
& lost my v to him
then he broke up with me cause of him not feeling ready to date cause he had just started to get back to a normal life

A week later he reaches out to me asking me to come over cause he was done with his classes
We hang out and the feelings and stuff are still there

He talks to me like we are dating (cute stuff, I love you, etc)

I asked him if there's anything here for me cause I don't wanna waste time & he said maybe.

I spend so much time with him he could never talk to other girls without me knowing. lol

I'm going back to college in a day
Do I break it off or what?

Yeah I'm in love with him but I can't sit around and pine.

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Post: 93871005_2 created on Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:15:08 +0000
Posted: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:15:08 +0000

I would personally wait. But I'm very emotional and I like to have someone to make me feel loved.

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Post: 93871005_3 created on Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:11 +0000
Posted: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:11 +0000

I'd say break it off. He already did.

Unless you want to be his and not with him

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Post: 93871005_4 created on Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:17 +0000
Posted: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:17 +0000

f1nd new a d00d emotion_zzz

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Post: 93871005_5 created on Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:19 +0000
Posted: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:19 +0000

If he can't make up his mind at this point, then I'd say back off before you let him hurt you again. I know in your chest, you want to make it work will all your might, but you must be strong!

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Post: 93871005_6 created on Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:33 +0000
Posted: Wed, 27 Aug 2014 14:16:33 +0000

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Sounds like you need to really sit him down and talk with him. Have him tell you exactly what he's feeling, and what type of relationship he wants from you. Then figure out if you want what he says too.