Psykeiri
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- Posted: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 14:09:10 +0000
i'm in the same boat. my dad's a pastor, but it was my mom who forced everything. i left the church at 15, but i had to claw my way out because she didn't want to accept it at all. threatened to kick me out of the house (because that's what being a good christian is about, right?)
i was always really disturbed, not usually by my own family (my mom being an exception from time to time), but by the attitudes of people within the churches we went to, especially the older crowd. very judgemental and homophobic people who would only open their mind slightly if the pastor had something liberal to say about it. in general, religious communities irk me. there's nothing wrong with the bible in and of itself but when people use it to justify their hateful opinions, i have a problem.
i am grateful that my dad is a very left-wing sort of guy. i didn't really grow up listening to his sermons because he worked for the government most of my childhood. he has a church now though. i went for the christmas service once, but other than that i've avoided religion entirely.
i consider myself agnostic and i doubt that will ever change.
i was always really disturbed, not usually by my own family (my mom being an exception from time to time), but by the attitudes of people within the churches we went to, especially the older crowd. very judgemental and homophobic people who would only open their mind slightly if the pastor had something liberal to say about it. in general, religious communities irk me. there's nothing wrong with the bible in and of itself but when people use it to justify their hateful opinions, i have a problem.
i am grateful that my dad is a very left-wing sort of guy. i didn't really grow up listening to his sermons because he worked for the government most of my childhood. he has a church now though. i went for the christmas service once, but other than that i've avoided religion entirely.
i consider myself agnostic and i doubt that will ever change.