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Not only do you have third grade grammar you obviously have low self-esteem and can't handle the reality that people have standards. That's why you probably can't grow up and get laid.

They mostly seem to lack the ability to decipher social cues. Most people can tell when someone is responding positively or negatively to you without big red letters saying You're making me uncomfortable. Other people can't or choose to ignore them thinking they can change your mind.

Twice on buses I've had guys hit on me and ignore all social cues. Up to and including thinking they had the right to touch me, even though I had verbally turned down their advances already.

Then there's Niels from across the street where I work. He would try to impress me by pretending to be smart but getting everything wrong. Or try to buy me things from the store and I always turned him down. I once flat out told him when he was saying stuff about us getting together if my boyfriend and I broke up, that it wasn't going to happen. And he flipped ******** s**t and threw the bag of licorice he bought at me. Then a few wonderful months later he cornered me in the store apologizing like that would magically make me like him. Last time I saw him though he asked how my boyfriend was and I said good. Then said he was moving. So because it's polite and I had to wait for his transaction to go through I asked where, and he yelled aggressively, "Any ******** where other then here." And stormed out.

I think it has less to do with you, I guess he thought he had nothing to lose. I wouldn't call it confidence though, but lack of respect.