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Post: 88232021_16 created on Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:16:17 +0000
Posted: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:16:17 +0000

Conscientiousnes

I don't understand the concept behind "hating" your friends. Is it seriously that painstakingly life depleting to just be nice to people. Especially people you call friends.

Nobody wants to be friends with people they hate.
So I don't understand the fad with hating your friends.

I don't understand how hate is a desirable emotion.

you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

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Post: 88232021_17 created on Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:19:17 +0000
Posted: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:19:17 +0000

I thought this was going to be about steak.

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Post: 88232021_18 created on Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:19:59 +0000
Posted: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:19:59 +0000

grievous bodily hysteria

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you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

I don't hate my bro's either.

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Post: 88232021_19 created on Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:22:01 +0000
Posted: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:22:01 +0000

Conscientiousnes

grievous bodily hysteria

Conscientiousnes

you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

I don't hate my bro's either.

i think you're missing the point champ

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Post: 88232021_20 created on Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:26:21 +0000
Posted: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:26:21 +0000

grievous bodily hysteria

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grievous bodily hysteria

Conscientiousnes

you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

I don't hate my bro's either.

i think you're missing the point champ

Possibly. I haven't slept in...4 days?

As a result, the few marbles I had left me for more mentally sound people.

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Post: 88232021_21 created on Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:42:10 +0000
Posted: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:42:10 +0000

This is some grade school s**t....

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Post: 88232021_23 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 05:45:25 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 05:45:25 +0000

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don't worry about it just do some meth and all will be okiedokie

love your signature

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Post: 88232021_24 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 05:50:24 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 05:50:24 +0000

Woman... (SIGH) why in god's name would pretend to hate to each other??? , I never did that s**t , ever. I never heard of it, second of all, she was the one that threw that s**t in the first place, so it would be her fault but it is also your fault for even reacting , you should confronted her about it after class or school and lastly , she must have really hated you if she had that much built up angry in side of her to keep going and be a b***h about it and youre "real" friend, is dumb. they cant tell either you guys were faking it or not, she or he could done or said something . and all three of you are stupid for being putting yourself in that situation , god dammit .

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Post: 88232021_25 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:41:09 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:41:09 +0000

v1ntage 5tars

let me tell you a story ...

so there are three people
me , my close friend, and my not so close friend.

so basically, me and my not so close friend pretend to hate each other (as a joke) and we also say we hate eachother
but it went too far today
so randomly, she threatened to hit me with her pencil case (from behind) and i said if she did it, i would punch her in the face, i said that cause i knew she wasnt going to do it ...
but ......
she did ..

and i got pissed, so i told her what that i wasnt lying from what i said. so i picked it up and threw it at her, but it hit her face.
she called it a b*tch move and i felt really bad and i said sorry and she kept saying that i didnt mean it(but i did) i just got angry.
she called me out (this was during class) and was like "SHE JUST HIT ME IN THE FACE"

so during the last 45m of class, she would just talk s**t about me
she even talked about how she would kill me and burry my grave
the thing is
my CLOSE FRIEND was beside me
and all she said was laugh at everything my not so close friend was saying (which was bad things about me)

so ...
did i go to far?
was it my fault, did i start it?
was my close friend ACTAULLY my close friend?
or am i just over reacting?

someone, i need answers
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this is why I don't talk s**t for jokes. ******** stupid a** bullshit right there. I don't pull out the H--bomb unless I am seriously ready to gut somebody like a fish. I have to mean it, thoroughly, and completely, before that words touches my lips.

because the thing is, when you use powerful words like that, they have an effect. and even if you don't mean it, and even if they know you don't mean it, it colours the entire relationship. you play a role long enough and you'll start to forget how much of it is really pretend and how much is reality.

this is why I try to only say what I mean and mean what I say.

saying you hate somebody when you don't is a bad idea. always is. because playinga t hatred is asking for trouble. the whole bunch of you should just sit down, and discuss the situation at length, and work out how you are going to change the way you relate to eachother. I suggest that you either treat eachother honestly and kindly, or else just stop associating.

you've gone and blurred the lines between a joke and a reality.

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Post: 88232021_26 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:44:04 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:44:04 +0000

empty voice of nothing

Conscientiousnes

you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

that ain't bonding, mate. that's toxic behavior, encouraged by social constructs of gender and gender roles.

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Post: 88232021_27 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:55:31 +0000
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you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

that ain't bonding, mate. that's toxic behavior, encouraged by social constructs of gender and gender roles.

jsyk, that is one of roman's abandoned accounts and he quit recently

also this thread is from 2013. kind of funny when you realize why it was bumped

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Post: 88232021_28 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:56:45 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 12:56:45 +0000

and dancing ensued

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you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

that ain't bonding, mate. that's toxic behavior, encouraged by social constructs of gender and gender roles.

jsyk, that is one of roman's abandoned accounts and he quit recently

also this thread is from 2013. kind of funny when you realize why it was bumped

huh... I did it again. why was it bumped?

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Post: 88232021_29 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 13:01:02 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 13:01:02 +0000

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and dancing ensued

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you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

that ain't bonding, mate. that's toxic behavior, encouraged by social constructs of gender and gender roles.

jsyk, that is one of roman's abandoned accounts and he quit recently

also this thread is from 2013. kind of funny when you realize why it was bumped

huh... I did it again. why was it bumped?

it's cool. he just won't respond.

because the bumper complimented roman's signature.

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Post: 88232021_30 created on Sun, 03 Aug 2014 13:04:09 +0000
Posted: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 13:04:09 +0000

and dancing ensued

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and dancing ensued

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empty voice of nothing

Conscientiousnes

you clearly have never experienced any kind of masculine bonding

that ain't bonding, mate. that's toxic behavior, encouraged by social constructs of gender and gender roles.

jsyk, that is one of roman's abandoned accounts and he quit recently

also this thread is from 2013. kind of funny when you realize why it was bumped

huh... I did it again. why was it bumped?

it's cool. he just won't respond.

because the bumper complimented roman's signature.

xp why do I always post in necro'd threads without realizing it?

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