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Post: 84741641_1 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:23:45 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:23:45 +0000

So last night my college had a dance, and of course I had to go in a skirt. Unfortunately, I got very drunk, and so while I was dancing/making out with this guy, my skirt rode up and I didn't notice. I had on shorts underneath, but apparently they rode up too. I'm just really worried that now everyone thinks I'm a slut. I'm not really sure how many people noticed, but I'm so mortified at what happened. I also go to a small school, around 2000 people. I'm guess I'm just wondering if this will effect my reputation, because I feel like everyone's going to see me differently now.

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Post: 84741641_2 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:31:36 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:31:36 +0000

People are going to assume what they want regardless of how the situation occurred. There are people who would have assumed you were a slut even just for kissing the guy, but who really cares?

Don't act any differently than you normally do.

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Post: 84741641_3 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:36:55 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:36:55 +0000

It's not that bad, I don't think. It might help to make jokes about it, that way you're owning what happened, and if you own it people can't really use it against you. If someone starts laughing about it, laugh with them, and admit it was funny.

Try not to get too hung up on the slut thing. You don't have a lot of control over that, people who are inclined to label people sluts usually don't need very many reasons. If you weren't a slut before, I doubt you'll be one now.

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Post: 84741641_4 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:37:54 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:37:54 +0000

crazy s**t tends to happen when alcohol is involved =_=

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Post: 84741641_5 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:48:05 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 17:48:05 +0000

I think people will only look at you as a slut when they hate you already or something like that because they can exaggerate what happened alot. If there's no one with a grudge against you, I'd say you're fine smile Just make a few jokes about it and whatever. If someone does label you as a slut, ignore them cuz they don't know anything smile

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Post: 84741641_6 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:08:16 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:08:16 +0000

people probably think ur a dumb ******** drunk that doesn't know when and when not to wear a skirt.

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Post: 84741641_7 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:13:29 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:13:29 +0000

they will think the opposite because only prudes wear shorts under skirts.

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Post: 84741641_8 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:15:59 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 18:15:59 +0000

Who cares what other people think? They're opinions aren't fact. Just be yourself. 4laugh

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Post: 84741641_9 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 19:09:06 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 19:09:06 +0000

Who cares what people think. You're a big girl, it's college, s**t happens.

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Post: 84741641_10 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:17:35 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:17:35 +0000

Don't hate on being a slut. talk2hand

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Post: 84741641_11 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:21:21 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:21:21 +0000

why don't you ask someone

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Post: 84741641_12 created on Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:23:26 +0000
Posted: Sun, 17 Feb 2013 22:23:26 +0000

Wearing revealing clothing does not make a girl a slut. Maybe a c*cktease, but not a slut. A slut would be a girl who sleeps around with different guys. Relax, it's okay heart