Koko the Unicorn
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- Posted: Thu, 10 May 2012 23:44:53 +0000
So my boyfriend is the most caring guy ever. But lately I've been seeing
many warning signs that this isn't a healthy relationship and I don't know what to do.
(We have been dating for a year, and it started off long distance)
Okay lets start with the list.
1. For one, his mom hates me, like hardcore and I've been nothing but nice to her.
2. He drinks everyday, but when he gets really drunk (on weekends) he's a total
d**k to me infront of everyone and makes EVERYBODY uncomfortable.
3. He has talked about marriage before, which seemed okay at the time - but now
it makes me uncomfortable; & says things like "I have never loved anyone like I
love you, I'd kill myself if we ever broke up!"
4. When he plays Call of Duty, he gets freakishly angry: AKA he pounds dents
into various objects and breaks things. Screams at the top of his lungs, it's so
childish.
5. And lastly - he is SO damn protective he won't let me hangout with another
dude 1 on 1; he thinks I'll cheat on him since he's been cheated on before. I
even found on google search "Private Investigator ourcityhere"
I really think I want to get out of this now...but I don't know how to since there
are soooooo many things that prevent me from leaving like the anger thing,
the "if you leave me I'll die thing" and the fact that I met him through a friend,
who I've dated another one of their friends and I don't want to be the multiple
homewrecker...but I just do NOT feel comfortable anymore. : / Advice please?
many warning signs that this isn't a healthy relationship and I don't know what to do.
(We have been dating for a year, and it started off long distance)
Okay lets start with the list.
1. For one, his mom hates me, like hardcore and I've been nothing but nice to her.
2. He drinks everyday, but when he gets really drunk (on weekends) he's a total
d**k to me infront of everyone and makes EVERYBODY uncomfortable.
3. He has talked about marriage before, which seemed okay at the time - but now
it makes me uncomfortable; & says things like "I have never loved anyone like I
love you, I'd kill myself if we ever broke up!"
4. When he plays Call of Duty, he gets freakishly angry: AKA he pounds dents
into various objects and breaks things. Screams at the top of his lungs, it's so
childish.
5. And lastly - he is SO damn protective he won't let me hangout with another
dude 1 on 1; he thinks I'll cheat on him since he's been cheated on before. I
even found on google search "Private Investigator ourcityhere"
I really think I want to get out of this now...but I don't know how to since there
are soooooo many things that prevent me from leaving like the anger thing,
the "if you leave me I'll die thing" and the fact that I met him through a friend,
who I've dated another one of their friends and I don't want to be the multiple
homewrecker...but I just do NOT feel comfortable anymore. : / Advice please?