final_wolf
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- Posted: Tue, 22 Nov 2011 23:25:41 +0000
Okay, my hubby and I are both 23, been married since May of 2011 been together since 05'. Have had our own house (an actual home home not apartment), since Aug 2010. We are stable and well fitted for our first baby. We just found out on Nov 19th that I am with child. That would put me at about 4 weeks preggy.
Anyway, here's the situation, I love my daddy and my mom. I'd be excited to tell daddy if mom wasn't around. But she is. I have to tell them at the same time no choice there. Anyway, my mom wanted me to wait until I was done with work (leaving work Dec. 19th) so I can be a stay at home mommy. My hubby and I have discussed this for a long time now. Anyway, I have primiary insurance at my place and secondary on my hubby's. My mom thinks that if I get preggy before I leave work insurance won't cover me. However, they have to since I am already on their plan (My hubby's plan would be the insurance paying). She doesn't understand that I am insuraned no matter what.
So how do I tell her that I'm preggy? Also I feel like I'm letting my mom down for whatever reason. (she has always had high standards of me and I feel with being preggy before I leave work that she will flip). Any ideas on how to break the ice?
EDIT
I know this is gaia, bunch of kids on it, I'm just hoping to find some nice peeps out there. Especially those who are already mothers and might be able to shine some light on my situation.
Anyway, here's the situation, I love my daddy and my mom. I'd be excited to tell daddy if mom wasn't around. But she is. I have to tell them at the same time no choice there. Anyway, my mom wanted me to wait until I was done with work (leaving work Dec. 19th) so I can be a stay at home mommy. My hubby and I have discussed this for a long time now. Anyway, I have primiary insurance at my place and secondary on my hubby's. My mom thinks that if I get preggy before I leave work insurance won't cover me. However, they have to since I am already on their plan (My hubby's plan would be the insurance paying). She doesn't understand that I am insuraned no matter what.
So how do I tell her that I'm preggy? Also I feel like I'm letting my mom down for whatever reason. (she has always had high standards of me and I feel with being preggy before I leave work that she will flip). Any ideas on how to break the ice?
EDIT
I know this is gaia, bunch of kids on it, I'm just hoping to find some nice peeps out there. Especially those who are already mothers and might be able to shine some light on my situation.