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Okay, my hubby and I are both 23, been married since May of 2011 been together since 05'. Have had our own house (an actual home home not apartment), since Aug 2010. We are stable and well fitted for our first baby. We just found out on Nov 19th that I am with child. That would put me at about 4 weeks preggy.
Anyway, here's the situation, I love my daddy and my mom. I'd be excited to tell daddy if mom wasn't around. But she is. I have to tell them at the same time no choice there. Anyway, my mom wanted me to wait until I was done with work (leaving work Dec. 19th) so I can be a stay at home mommy. My hubby and I have discussed this for a long time now. Anyway, I have primiary insurance at my place and secondary on my hubby's. My mom thinks that if I get preggy before I leave work insurance won't cover me. However, they have to since I am already on their plan (My hubby's plan would be the insurance paying). She doesn't understand that I am insuraned no matter what.
So how do I tell her that I'm preggy? Also I feel like I'm letting my mom down for whatever reason. (she has always had high standards of me and I feel with being preggy before I leave work that she will flip). Any ideas on how to break the ice?

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I know this is gaia, bunch of kids on it, I'm just hoping to find some nice peeps out there. Especially those who are already mothers and might be able to shine some light on my situation.

XD thanks for letting me know not all of Gaia are just kids. Believe me I want to just come out and say it. Thinking about heading over to their house tonight with hubby and just telling them. Might make turkey day akward though since we're spending it with them. XD But I don't really want to keep waiting cause I dont' need the stress. Right? *nods* right. XD It's just a thing that's easier said than done. Also I'm just speaking with hubby via txting (since he's still at work). And he's almost just as afraid as I am. Kind of amusing to be honest.
Thanks for the input.

Hang out in LI and ED, you meet the more mature people. I actually don't know any kinds on gaia eek

Maybe you should bring him along with you? Tackle this as your first family hurdle. It'll be alot easier to stand up for yourselves if you two are supporting each other. Just think of this as the first thing you have to do as a family, as mommy and daddy, to get through this

Perhaps I shall hang around here more often.

And you're right. And I plan on dragging him along even though he won't like it. XD I'm the one that will grab the bull by its horns if I must and when the moment comes. When push comes to shove, I'll shove. *sighs* Just do it with hubby get it over with. *walks into parents house* Hey mom, dad I'm 4 weeks preggers. *sighs* Yep it'll go over so very well. Well it isn't like she can kick me out of the house anymore lol. Been a long time since she could do that.

Well, good luck, and I hope you two do well whee I know however you do it, you'll stand up for yourself

Also, maybe you should invite her to your house, so you can kick her out? I got to do that to my mother for the first time a little while ago, it was sooo satisfying

Would she be mad or upset then? and just because you didn't wait till after work?

Well, you could tell her, you might just be overexaggerating how she would react razz , I think she might end up really excited to find out she is a grandma, although, it may depend, because I don't know your parents razz