rylie green
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- Posted: Wed, 25 May 2011 05:03:29 +0000
Why are these guys attracted to me or these people in general?
all my life i've been like the silver metal, always second place... i've never had any true, and forever friends... the few i actually thought i was ended up ignoring me completely the moment one or the other moved out of town...
a person i thought was my very best friend, who moved outta town just before we started high school sent me a wedding invite via myspace the day before her wedding, OMG i was so pissed... we're now friends on FB, and i've never mentioned that, but it just told me how very far a part we are...
another person i was close to completely ignored me when i came back(after moving away the previous year) for her graduation... she completely blew me off and nearly left me stranded in the middle of the desert.
one girl i grew up all the way through school with always became my best friend when there wasn't a new girl in town... i was always the back up plan...
and then there's the relationships with guys...
the first real one was two year older, but in the same grade as me... he had a crappy family, bounced around a lot, and had a couple of learning disorders, so i understood... it took a while to get started, but it was nice... at time he'd cuddle a little too much and stepped on my toes, but i lived with it 'cause i thought i loved him... we brokeup 'cause he was turning 18 and wanted to get away from his step mom, but couldn't afford to live on his own, yet... we started talking again two years later and he came out to visit... at the time i realized while i grew up in age he seemed to grow down twice as much... he was so immature!
after i moved to FL i met a guy online who know people from where i moved from, we seemed to really click, but my mom sabtoged many of my chances of meeting the guy in person, so he just gave up and deleted me from everything...
i dated this one guy twice, the first with my mom... after the second date he sent a dozen red roses to my house! seriously, who does that after the second date? it freaked me out completely so i never contacted him again...
after moving to FL, losing my friends back home, and dealing with the last two guys... i was thoroughly depressed, and i met another guy online... he basically offered me an exscape, he lived in CO and he had room, so i went... the following day i was basically on a flight back to FL... he was furious and yelled at me constantly via IMing... we stopped talking until a few years later on FB, and we started making plans for a real move and a real relationship... over a few months time though he became really obsessive and demanding, bordering an emotionally abusive line... i cut all ties with him and then he proposed to me. i still said no...
now just over the last month i've been talking with a guy who hit me up on FB... he seemed nice but he never really answered any of my more intrusive questions. I'd ask what's his favorite movie, and he'd say i like scary movies, but nothing definate... after a long chat today, i'm realizing his story isn't straight and something is definately up/wrong...
i've always had a hard time trusting and people have told me because i don't trust no one can get close to me, but when i do let my walls down it's always something that makes me put up a stronger and harder wall... why can't i just meet someone good for once?
sorry for the WOT...
all my life i've been like the silver metal, always second place... i've never had any true, and forever friends... the few i actually thought i was ended up ignoring me completely the moment one or the other moved out of town...
a person i thought was my very best friend, who moved outta town just before we started high school sent me a wedding invite via myspace the day before her wedding, OMG i was so pissed... we're now friends on FB, and i've never mentioned that, but it just told me how very far a part we are...
another person i was close to completely ignored me when i came back(after moving away the previous year) for her graduation... she completely blew me off and nearly left me stranded in the middle of the desert.
one girl i grew up all the way through school with always became my best friend when there wasn't a new girl in town... i was always the back up plan...
and then there's the relationships with guys...
the first real one was two year older, but in the same grade as me... he had a crappy family, bounced around a lot, and had a couple of learning disorders, so i understood... it took a while to get started, but it was nice... at time he'd cuddle a little too much and stepped on my toes, but i lived with it 'cause i thought i loved him... we brokeup 'cause he was turning 18 and wanted to get away from his step mom, but couldn't afford to live on his own, yet... we started talking again two years later and he came out to visit... at the time i realized while i grew up in age he seemed to grow down twice as much... he was so immature!
after i moved to FL i met a guy online who know people from where i moved from, we seemed to really click, but my mom sabtoged many of my chances of meeting the guy in person, so he just gave up and deleted me from everything...
i dated this one guy twice, the first with my mom... after the second date he sent a dozen red roses to my house! seriously, who does that after the second date? it freaked me out completely so i never contacted him again...
after moving to FL, losing my friends back home, and dealing with the last two guys... i was thoroughly depressed, and i met another guy online... he basically offered me an exscape, he lived in CO and he had room, so i went... the following day i was basically on a flight back to FL... he was furious and yelled at me constantly via IMing... we stopped talking until a few years later on FB, and we started making plans for a real move and a real relationship... over a few months time though he became really obsessive and demanding, bordering an emotionally abusive line... i cut all ties with him and then he proposed to me. i still said no...
now just over the last month i've been talking with a guy who hit me up on FB... he seemed nice but he never really answered any of my more intrusive questions. I'd ask what's his favorite movie, and he'd say i like scary movies, but nothing definate... after a long chat today, i'm realizing his story isn't straight and something is definately up/wrong...
i've always had a hard time trusting and people have told me because i don't trust no one can get close to me, but when i do let my walls down it's always something that makes me put up a stronger and harder wall... why can't i just meet someone good for once?
sorry for the WOT...