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ok, so this guy messaged me on FB last month and we've been talking ever since... online only, we've both been busy and haven't had time to meet yet...

we're 10 yrs apart in age... it doesn't bother me since i've never been with a guy so different in age... we're both willing to try it...

he once said he was in the military for 15yrs, but today while chatting he said only 7yrs... i called him out on it and he said he's clueless as to why he said 15 before... he also avoids telling me what branch of military he's in...

on his FB page it says he's from FL(where we are), but he told me today he grew up in AL, and only just came to FL last year... on FB it used to say hometown, so maybe he got confused...

all his friends are married, and he's the only single guy, he often tells me... it sounded like they've been friends for years, but they all live here... i'm confused...

i asked him about college, and he avoids the question like the plague, it seems...

and apparatently his dad was a Building Construction Engineering and did a project in Nigera, over 7yrs ago, but died before he got paid for it, so now my guy on FB has to prove he's his son to get the money...

he's never asked me for money or anything... he seems like a nice guy, but then things don't add up right... i just don't know...

any advice please

he seems to be quite the liar. no point in sticking around

what are you talking about sweetheart? is it a sin to ask for advice? I just finished talking to him via IM and still digesting the info...

If he's fun to talk to, there's not much harm, really, in simply talking. However, I would do some serious thinking, were I you, about how much you're willing to talk with him about anymore. He *is* a creeper. It might also be a good idea to hint heavily that while his company is enjoyable, the type of company he's got with you now is the friendliest and most personal it's ever going to get.

Honestly, though, if he can't even keep his lies straight, his stories will start to get less and less entertaining... except to start mocking him when you catch him in more and more skrew-ups. I wouldn't waste my time.

damn Damn DAMN!!! why are these guys always attracted to me!!! i just want a nice guy for once!!