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Hi... I am extremely overweight and I decided this year I would try to change that. I know basically what to do but does anyone have any ideas on what to eat? What exercise to do? How to stay motivated?
I was thinking of keeping this a secret from the people in my life because I'm so worried that I'll fail like the last time I tried this and I don't want them to know my failure or see their looks on their faces if I don't make it. I understand that it's good to tell people for accountability but I am just so afraid of failure... anyone have any words of encouragement? I want to start but I'm afraid... I want to just do it but I'm worried I'll just wind up doing the same things again and I'll just mess up.
I'm looking at losing maybe 100 to 130 pounds to give you an idea of how much I'm trying to lose.
I am also extremely overweight (well morbid in my case) and I understand the struggle to either say your intention or not to your close ones. Before I lost 150lbs but I regained everything when I started dating my current boyfriend. My family was supportive but yeah they now don't really believe in anything and just you know give up on my case as they don't think I can make it. But in the end your doing this for yourself and if it can help, to show them what you can do and how strong you are.
I don't know your exact weight but at first you need to eat well, walk at least 30min daily, don't do too much as it might hurt your body. When you think you are ready for more you can do work out at home with videos or find a sport you would like to do. If you like swimming it is a very good exercise anytime no matter the weight it doesn't stress your body at all.
I know for me I am an EXTREMELY picky eater and it is hard to find a good balanced diet but what I did was looking on the internet and find what diet/food that could be considered more healthy choice.
One thing I found important to start with was removing bread, pasta, rice, potato of my daily diet. Yes there will be some unhealthy meal in my diet once in a while but I am finding snacks, dessert that can satisfy me from sweet craving and some meal I like in healthy version of them.
My own motivation is my mirror I don't like what I see and I want to be something more. And also I want to prove the world that I am able to do it. In reality more you go into weight loss more your fighting yourself, your self-esteem and all that.
so overall just believe in yourself and you can do it ! You got a first step, wanting to do a change.