Marzipan Mina
(?)Community Member
- Posted: Thu, 13 Sep 2012 05:09:32 +0000
As I start this topic, I need to ask a rather embarrassing question...if feminism is women's rights, what is the official name for men's rights?
I see a lot of hostility out there for feminism, usually because it's seen as for women only for obvious reasons.
I seem to have a completely different perspective than others, and I'm wondering if I'm naively optimistic about feminism or something.
Also, this is kind of created thanks to Facebook awkwardness.
I'm friends with a man who's anti-feminism and posts articles trying to prove how harmful and bad it is all the time.
I try to be reasonable about, telling myself 'we can disagree and still be friends' but from the last article he posted I'm starting to think this particular anti-feminism organization is taking pleasure women failing, and I'm having difficulties wanting to stay friends. ... But that's a 'life issues' topic...so, anyways...
Question 1: When you hear feminism, what do you think of and why?
For me, I think equality, the idea that we live in a world where women are still treated with less respect than men in many ways, so feminism is a good and needed thing to even things out.
From what I've seen a "good" feminist takes the equality part seriously and doesn't try to be say "All men are evil" or anything like that.
I think about gender stereotypes and roles, and I believe men suffer from those outdated ideas just as badly as women do, so feminism should help that, right?
Question 2: What do you think of when you hear of men's rights?
Thanks to (sigh) that Facebook drama I admit to being unsure about this one.
I can understand men would want to express equality as well, and a word besides feminist would be more accurate I suppose.
I just can't help but have bad connotations with this one, even though I know logically that's unfair of me.
I see a lot of hostility out there for feminism, usually because it's seen as for women only for obvious reasons.
I seem to have a completely different perspective than others, and I'm wondering if I'm naively optimistic about feminism or something.
Also, this is kind of created thanks to Facebook awkwardness.
I'm friends with a man who's anti-feminism and posts articles trying to prove how harmful and bad it is all the time.
I try to be reasonable about, telling myself 'we can disagree and still be friends' but from the last article he posted I'm starting to think this particular anti-feminism organization is taking pleasure women failing, and I'm having difficulties wanting to stay friends. ... But that's a 'life issues' topic...so, anyways...
Question 1: When you hear feminism, what do you think of and why?
For me, I think equality, the idea that we live in a world where women are still treated with less respect than men in many ways, so feminism is a good and needed thing to even things out.
From what I've seen a "good" feminist takes the equality part seriously and doesn't try to be say "All men are evil" or anything like that.
I think about gender stereotypes and roles, and I believe men suffer from those outdated ideas just as badly as women do, so feminism should help that, right?
Question 2: What do you think of when you hear of men's rights?
Thanks to (sigh) that Facebook drama I admit to being unsure about this one.
I can understand men would want to express equality as well, and a word besides feminist would be more accurate I suppose.
I just can't help but have bad connotations with this one, even though I know logically that's unfair of me.