virginity---something to be ashamed of?

[Jkid4]

I'm 21 and I'm still a virgin. I have no regrets.

[Agent Cougar Draven]

zeffers

Ashamed? Heck no, I am certainly not ashamed that I am a virgin, thank God I am waiting until I am married. smile

Can you explain this? I don't really think it matters that much to God.

lumnata

Agent Cougar Draven

notmuch_23

especially since condoms aren't 100% effective.

Well, you're right, but 92% effective isn't too shabby, and combined with other birth control methods, can reduce the level of failure far, far below any reasonable level of statistical significance. (And yet, thanks to faulty sex ed, people still don't know how to use them, and so we still have failtastic douchebags running around complaining that condoms aren't 100% effective.)

Not to mention vasectomies. I'd damn sure have a vasectomy before I'd give up sex for my entire life.

I wouldn't want to ******** around with surgery, so condoms are always going to be the way to go for me.

Arashi Yanagawa

I'm 23 and still a virgin, so that high school hopelessness was crushing once it set in on me. Now, I don't feel so bad about it, but I still would like to have sex sometime.

As I believe I've said it before, "high school hopelessness" does feel horrible, but in the end, you're likely better off not getting into sexual relationships at that young of an age. Better off waiting until your peers and those in your actual range are emotionally mature.

[Robiroth]

American Society ih general says yes. But if you are ok with it then tell them to go do someone and stop bothering you.

[Sar SMASH]

I'm 23 now and I lost my virginity at age 22. I wasn't in a relationship but he is one of my good friends and I trust him. I view the people who look down on others for not having sex in high school view sex in turn as a fad - like owning the newest fashions or acting a certain way. Sex is a mature act to be done between two consenting adults and running around with your legs open just to be accepted into a social group is demoralizing and disgusting.

[Megsie_Baby]

It's nothing to be ashamed of, I find it admirable when I meet someone who is a virgin, they didn't sleep with someone to just get it over with,they wern't desperate ect.

I'm not saying everyone who lost their virginity are desperate lol I'm talking about the people who basically throw themselves at the first person who comes along.

I lost it at 17,and I wish I had waited, I was too young,wasn't ready,and really didn't even want to lose it, but being dumb,insecure and pressured I did.

[Naveh]

Don't be ashamed. I find mine and other teenage lives to be extremely Ignorant. The life of a common teen is pressured with adult freedom which they want, unfortunatly they view the tempations like alcohol, drugs, sex, and uncontrol authority of it. In highschool if those are not met the less you are viewed as an experianced adult. So alot of teens think the sluttier, drugged up, rebel they are, the more respect they get. So basicly you are being wise and wait when YOU are ready then having morons do it for you.