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Sexuality?

Straight 0.40105540897098 40.1% [ 152 ]
Lesbian 0.087071240105541 8.7% [ 33 ]
Gay 0.11345646437995 11.3% [ 43 ]
Bisexual 0.28496042216359 28.5% [ 108 ]
Asexual 0.11345646437995 11.3% [ 43 ]
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This reminds me of a couple I spoke to.

They supported gay rights

A year later they disowned their son when he came out the closet. rofl

I'm straight.
this is probably not unique but..i am attracted to guys but I have no desire to have sex..at all. period.im not quite sure why....maybe it's a choice..it remains yet to be seen and figured out.
I choose to be straight and i'm happy that way. 4laugh
I believe that you love who you love. Its not based on male or females. Its just the person.
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I think I could fool around with another girl; there are some women I am attracted to, whereas there are others I just recognize as good-looking people. But I don't consider myself bisexual because I still can't picture myself having sex with another girl. It's just unappealing to me. As far as romance goes, I'm completely heteroromantic. Feelings for girls (even close friends) have never developed into crushes, let alone romantic love.

So, maybe I'm a one on the Kinsey scale? Would that be semi bi-curious? That fact that I can't define myself has never really bothered me.

As for other people, love is love. If you're a guy/girl and you love another guy/girl, great. If you're a guy and you love a girl, also great. If you're a guy/girl and you love a hermaphrodite, that's great, too. You're wonderful the way you are, no matter who you like to roll in the hay with xp .

This is getting long, but one more thing; I was raised Christian, and I believe it is possible to stay Christian and still support gay rights. God loves all people -- besides, how could any form of honest love be evil? I've distanced myself from the church, but I haven't lost my faith. They're the ones who are horribly mis-informed.
I might be bi-curious . . .
I've always considered the possibility that I'm bisexual, because I have been attracted to other women before. However, I've never really had the urge to have sex with a women so badly that I attempt to act on it.
I'm also pro-gay rights, my best friend is gay and I love him to death.
I just feel that no matter what I'll always feel comfortable with open sexuality and different views on the subject.
Being gay is one of those things that I would not wish on my worst enemy. I really don't LOVE being gay; but do straight people just LOVE being straight? I didn't choose to be gay...I'm not sure who would, but when life gives you lemons, yeah?

I'm more indifferent to my sexuality. It'd be easier if I were straight, of course, but it's just who you love. I'm not even comfortable categorizing myself in a category. I'm too metaphysical for all of this XP I can't word my reasoning right. I'm gay, but I don't see where the line is drawn between gay and straight.
Dunno if I've posted here before but...

I'm pansexual. Your poll sucks.
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Life Is No Cabaret
Well, I'm not really happy with mine. I'm bisexual. I knew this girl that I liked, and I tried to stop liking her; to stop thinking about her, but no matter what, I still liked her. I guess the phrase "You can't help love" kinda works for my situation.


thats a universall love thing not a sexual thing
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screw religion, the government, science or corperations, try to brand, judge, catogorise the feelings in you heart and pants........nobody should EVER correct you on that, those are your feelings not theres....your free to love whoever you want however you want and even AS many as you want. as long as everyone INVOLVED is happy with it.....'


people with power are just merely disgusted by peoples differences and wish to create hate from love and truth from lies. dont let them decieve you, or live a lie....be honest about your self even OFFLINE......its hard i know but i promise in the end YOU WILL SMILE.
I will kiss anyone i like.

I will date anyone i feel i could love.

I don't believe gender has a big part in my feelings. Because i have no wish to deal with any of the issues that come with dating someone of the same sex during highschool, if i was ever to have an open relationship with a woman i would wait till college. wink
Pyrolily
I will kiss anyone i like.

I will date anyone i feel i could love.

I don't believe gender has a big part in my feelings. Because i have no wish to deal with any of the issues that come with dating someone of the same sex during highschool, if i was ever to have an open relationship with a woman i would wait till college. wink


now that you mention that...
I have noticed that there are waaaayy more homosexuals in my college than in my highschool (people are more open minded maybe?)
and also. I see more woman-man transvestites than man-woman (only knew of one and she graduated already)

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I just remembered that there is a whole floor dedicated to lesbians in the girl's dorms
they put them all together because that way there are less complaints and they seem happier too
i'm bisexual and perfectly happy with it.. my sexuality is not who i am
i am attracted to people for who they are rather than WHAT they are
i also believe that it is possible for everyone to fall for anyone, providing they're the "right" person - people just have their preferences
I've always found lables to be silly...but, in this matter, I've decided to choose one.

'asexual'.

It explains why, in context of relationships and people, the actual physical idea of sex turns me off. I don't mind the hugging or the cuddling on the sofa to watch movies, and a good shoulder massage always makes me melt, but the moment someone moves in to give me a kiss or even go further is th moment I back away and shut down.

I think a small place in the back of my mind is revolted by the idea.

That said, I don't mind if other's have sex. Heck, I don't mind getting involved romantically with people (male or female), as long as they understand that I'm in it for the smiles and the laughs and the quiet moments of watching movies or looking at the stars. Those moments are peaceful--that's all I want, really.

If the person doesn't understand that, its usually best for me to break it off and focus on my academic pursuits. Who needs a pushy lover, anyway?

Because I'm considered 'strange' by the norm, I fully support other people that are 'strange' by the norm. Some of the nicest people that I've met have been gay (my uncles, for example), and it really is unfortunate that people are stigmatized for what has essentially been a part of humanty since the beginning of time.

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