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I also want to add, your romantic attraction can differ from your sexual attraction. so people can be hetero-romantic, bisexual, and think of themselves as hetero, or bi. the same with any other combination.
Nearly Headless Sarah
I am a lesbian, but I am also a bit of a sexuality snob.

These days being gay is simply a trend.
To me, pansexuality is completely made up (not being rude, just stating an opinion.)
How can sexuality not be about what's in someone's pants?
What's the difference between a sexual relationship and a friendship.
Sex.

Pansexuality = attracted physically in some way to all genders/sexes. You must have missed the definition at some point.

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I understand love for love, and everything.
I love plenty of men.
But I cannot have sex with them.
It just, doesn't happen.


And then, bisexuality is the biggest trend of them all.
Are you talking yourself into liking the same sex to look cooler?
And if so, don't you think that might screw up your brain in later days?
That you pretended to be something and did sexual things based on false feelings?


I have met very few real bisexuals.
It's the rarest thing ever.

Fake bisexuals tend to act that way just for attention. Don't worry, we all dislike them.

Unless they believe that they are bisexual due to confusion, but such confusion is common in teenagers of all sexualities.
I'm straight, but I respect Homos and I think as a hetero I have a lot to learn about sensitivity and femininity. Some gay guys seem to be pretty good being emotionally comfortable and loving the male person. I want to be more like that, just with myself and with a girl. A lot a girl love me as a man too. I think gays know how to let themselves be loved like a man that I can learn from and apply to my straight life.
iv always liked males. iv never wanted a girl that way. guys are just way hotter and more attractive to me.
girls are hott. idk how i feel about guys. i guess if i really liked a guy i might date him. but girls are more fun!
I suppose I'm bi. In practice, my only real romantic relationships have been lesbian in nature, but I feel that if a male were interesting, kind, and funny enough I'd probably start to fancy him.

I like to think that it's more about personality than the physical aspect that attracts me to a person. The physical bit seems to be mostly positions, tools, and preferences all of which can be simulated to some extent and is really not an important part to me personally. At the end of the day, I really just want a very close friend... someone I can talk to, go out with, and who really just gets me. Since either gender is capable of that, choosing one over the other seems a moot point.

Gosh, I think I must sound horribly insincere and silly. Faz, I don't know. Sexuality is just this weird thing to me and I'm still struggling to understand it... while wondering if I even care... and worrying that I might not and what that means... or if it means anything.... and then my head explodes and the nice men in white coats cart me away to the funny farm.... bla. sweatdrop
maydayp_p
I also want to add, your romantic attraction can differ from your sexual attraction. so people can be hetero-romantic, bisexual, and think of themselves as hetero, or bi. the same with any other combination.


This. 3nodding

There are different types of attractions. Primary attraction is based on appearance, outward sexiness, secondary is based on emotions and personality more so.

I identify as a lesbian. I like boobies. However, I have had purely emotional/secondary attractions to a transgendered male and a biological male.

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