Sexuality session. . .

[maydayp_p]

When did you find out and how? well I was about 15/16 for the asexual (that's when I heard about it) and 19 for the aromantic (that's when I accepted that I wasn't just a late bloomer)
the truth is though I always knew that I wasn't straight (though not always in those words) I mean gr.2, when everyone was starting to have crushes I didn't I claimed to to be cool/normal but it was all a lie. the people I claimed to like were the guys I thought were nice or wanted to know better. I didn't immediately identify as asexual because well I hadn't figured myself out enough on that part and the fact that I wasn't romantic I had to figure some things out first. I had to realize I read romance books to syphon emotions of love, that sex drive and being sexually atracted were different. I also had to accept that I wasn't just a late bloomer, and be sure that I wasn't a lesbian or bisexual (which if I wasn't asexual I'd probably be) since men have no appeal to me, at least the ones I know. I actually found out about both asexuals and aromantics because of gaia. otherwise I would still be struggling to figure myself out (and probably identifying as a lesbian,)

[irishcandie]

im straight
i've never thought about a girl in that way
im totally boy crazy actually
haha

[Dezuki]

Hummm.... I suppose I'm a bit... out-of-the-ordinary. For awhile I just was *meh* about everything--though I knew I liked girls... but after awhile I realized that I actually liked guys as well; I forgot when exactly, but before I was in HS. So I would count as "Bi". However, it's a little more complicated, because I'm also Transsexual--and while I knew this since like forever, I wasn't really aware of the actual condition and what could be done 'till some time in HS, and even then I kept quiet about it, and haven't really "came out" until a few months ago... For those who don't know the exact definition, Transsexual is one who is the opposite gender than what they're born as. I know many would argue with me on how being Bi and Transsexual is not real and all, but I know it's not a choice, and I know it's very real. So yay~ the rest of my life shall be really... screwy. :3

[DarkDaisuke9]

Gay, never been attracted to women. I can say they're beautiful, pretty etc. but in a relationship or further no... The female body is a beautiful thing though smile

[Project Light]

Hijacker45003

When did you find out and how?
I am really curious about other peoples sexuality, wether it be straight, bi, lesbian, or homosexual.
You don't have to post your sexuality if you can avoid posting without telling your story.
I'm just interested in seeing what people have to say about their sexuality.
If your Straight have you ever even thought about a girl in well that way? Ever wanted to be a lesbian for a day, then found out you were straight?
I really want to hear from a bisexual male though.
Post and discuss.

I've always been sexual. I can't think of an age when I didn't want to have sex. There were times when I didn't know what sex was, but I wanted it. I discovered masturbation at around age four or so. It led to me being very in touch with my sexuality. I am very much straight, and had always wanted to have sex with every girl I thought was hot. I remember having fetishes in merely first grade. It never really was a big deal, and still isn't. At most, the prolonged masturbation has become a sexual addiction, but it doesn't even have a negative impact on my life, given I'm in a loving, dedicated relationship. It has allowed me to mentally alter my orgasms to feel about twenty times more powerful. I guess all the practice really did make perfect. >_>

[hwp96]

I found I liked both girls and boys when I was 15. I'd broken up with my boyfriend and I found comfort with my best friend. And a little more than just comfort. redface

In general, I think I enjoy being in bed with girls more than boys.

[Xilia]

I considered myself straight for a long time, even though I've found girls attractive since middle school. It's sort've embarrassing, but I really, really liked boobs, but I dismissed it as just that. However the last couple of years, I've been struggling with the idea of liking one of my closest friends. I'm hoping I can pursue a long term relationship with her, which is really what lead me to believe I was bisexual as I wanted more than a sexual relationship.

So yes, my learning of my bisexuality is fairly recent, and something I'm still in the process of adjusting to.

[hwp96]

Aww, don't be embarrassed about it, dear. Several of my straight friends like breasts too. smile I might not obsess or focus on them like some boys do, but for me, I think breasts are a big part of what makes a girl pretty and attractive. And no, they don't necessarily have to be naked breasts, either.

<sigh> I know what you mean about being with close friends. When you can show you love her on a deep, intimate and physical level, as well as on a friendship level, it's really beautiful.

[Tea Age Sea]

Humans are omnisexual, and each one takes a sexual imprint when they are young which defines their default preference. This becomes fickle as they hit puberty, and then they run around like a bunch of ******** a** suckers defining themselves into labels. Their preference or "Sexual Orientation" May or may not be prone to change throughout their entire teen-adult life, depending upon their living circumstances and social life.

[Mauled by angry kittens]

Personally, I'm a lesbian man. Now you may say that this is impossible but listen to what I have to say. I finally figured it out when I was 15. I'd always known I wasn't straight because the idea of heterosexuality just didn't seem right to me and I never felt like the way I liked women was particularly... I wanna say manly but it isn't really what I'm going for. I've never really wanted to have a relationship with a guy, though I have occasionally had sexual thoughts about guys. Also, I've never really liked the fact that I am male. However, I've always identified as a male. I don't really like the idea of heterosexual intercourse and as such and have always preferred the idea of sexuality with a woman as a woman better than as a man. I've always thought that I have a very feminine sexuality. When all that came together, I came to the conclusion that the only thing I could possibly be is a lesbian man.

[Project Light]

Mauled by angry kittens

Personally, I'm a lesbian man. Now you may say that this is impossible but listen to what I have to say. I finally figured it out when I was 15. I'd always known I wasn't straight because the idea of heterosexuality just didn't seem right to me and I never felt like the way I liked women was particularly... I wanna say manly but it isn't really what I'm going for. I've never really wanted to have a relationship with a guy, though I have occasionally had sexual thoughts about guys. Also, I've never really liked the fact that I am male. However, I've always identified as a male. I don't really like the idea of heterosexual intercourse and as such and have always preferred the idea of sexuality with a woman as a woman better than as a man. I've always thought that I have a very feminine sexuality. When all that came together, I came to the conclusion that the only thing I could possibly be is a lesbian man.

I have a similar predicament. If I could choose which gender I am, I'd choose female. In day to day life, I'm fine with being male. I identify as and feel male. I'm attracted to women and not men. But when it comes to sexuality, I want to be female. I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I'm not attracted to lesbianism either. I think I would get no greater sexual satisfaction than self-gratification as a female, or maybe a female with a strapon.
But since you can't just change your gender when you're aroused, I think being male is the best option for me. I'm attracted to heterosexual sex as a male, and love sex with my female partner. Just in a hypothetical world, the above scenario of a self-gratifying female sounds more appealing.

[hwp96]

I think everyone wonders what it could be like as the opposite sex at various times.

[Mauled by angry kittens]

Project Light

Mauled by angry kittens

Personally, I'm a lesbian man. Now you may say that this is impossible but listen to what I have to say. I finally figured it out when I was 15. I'd always known I wasn't straight because the idea of heterosexuality just didn't seem right to me and I never felt like the way I liked women was particularly... I wanna say manly but it isn't really what I'm going for. I've never really wanted to have a relationship with a guy, though I have occasionally had sexual thoughts about guys. Also, I've never really liked the fact that I am male. However, I've always identified as a male. I don't really like the idea of heterosexual intercourse and as such and have always preferred the idea of sexuality with a woman as a woman better than as a man. I've always thought that I have a very feminine sexuality. When all that came together, I came to the conclusion that the only thing I could possibly be is a lesbian man.

I have a similar predicament. If I could choose which gender I am, I'd choose female. In day to day life, I'm fine with being male. I identify as and feel male. I'm attracted to women and not men. But when it comes to sexuality, I want to be female. I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I'm not attracted to lesbianism either. I think I would get no greater sexual satisfaction than self-gratification as a female, or maybe a female with a strapon.
But since you can't just change your gender when you're aroused, I think being male is the best option for me. I'm attracted to heterosexual sex as a male, and love sex with my female partner. Just in a hypothetical world, the above scenario of a self-gratifying female sounds more appealing.

I don't know about that. I think that participating in lesbian sex would be a lot of fun. I personally don't like the straight line shape that heterosexual coitus takes.
Edit: pun unintentional
Edit x2: *unintended
Edit x3: Oh, who am I trying to kid? The pun was totally intended

[hwp96]

Straight line? I don't understand the joke.