I am pansexual. How I describe it personally is, "What's in your pants doesn't make or break if I like you!" But on a more official matter, I say that "I love who I love, regardless of gender*, sex*, or lack of identification with."
*(Yes, there is a difference between gender and sex.)
I found out that I was pansexual not that long ago (7 months with my gf as of yesterday--5 months BFF beforehand), but looking back all my life, my being pansexual makes much sense. ^___^
For example, I have never had any random sexual desire for random hot people. (It's the person/ality themselves that turn me on blaugh ), but when I become very close to a friend, girl or boy, I see how sexy they really are. xd Sounds kinda weird, but...
And then, as I said before, though I have never had the opportunity in person, I would love them even if they were a different gender than of their sex, or if they were not identified with either.
But I have to say it would be very much more difficult for a guy to get a chance with me, cuz most guys minds turn off when they're sex drive is turned on, and I have been hurt just way too much to let myself be hurt again. But I'm not worrying about it, cuz I think my gf is the one. heart
Hope I gave you some valuable insight!
--Sonny!