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I'm the opposite of a *****, is there a word for people like us yet?
I found out at the age of 7 I think.. question

Hey guys, i'm a bit illiterate so i do most of my time lurking around extended discussion because, i really don't want to get bashed for talking like a 10 year old or something. Either way i love to talk about stuff and learn more and more filling in my head and does anyone have anything to say about this person? Because i thought what he said is kind of interesting, even though i am straight i just wonder what would the opposite of a ***** be ???
straight, always have been.

have had, and still have sexual fantasies including women/girls, have kissed girls in the past, but have absolutley no interest in either sex or relationships with girls.

sure, never say never, who knows if i meet a überspecial woman in the future, but probably no. like guys too much.
Tzazon
shadowkillua
I'm the opposite of a *****, is there a word for people like us yet?
I found out at the age of 7 I think.. question

Hey guys, i'm a bit illiterate so i do most of my time lurking around extended discussion because, i really don't want to get bashed for talking like a 10 year old or something. Either way i love to talk about stuff and learn more and more filling in my head and does anyone have anything to say about this person? Because i thought what he said is kind of interesting, even though i am straight i just wonder what would the opposite of a ***** be ???


If you (and by proxy the person you quoted) mean someone who likes adults instead of children, that's teliophilia (also known as "normal" sexual attraction). If you're talking about being attracted to someone vastly older than you, that's gerontophilia.
hazertike
straight, always have been.

have had, and still have sexual fantasies including women/girls, have kissed girls in the past, but have absolutley no interest in either sex or relationships with girls.

sure, never say never, who knows if i meet a überspecial woman in the future, but probably no. like guys too much.

I feel great knowing I'm not the only one who has experimented before.
I've liked girls since as long as I can remember. The last time I liked a boy was Elementary School, and I still payed more attention to girls than I did to him. I haven't really liked guys since, and I've never been sexually attracted to guys. I tried to be physical with one, and I really didn't like it. I've been physical with girls before, and I loved it. I love almost everything about women, and I dislike mens' bodies. I can't see men as anything other than friends. So, I am very gay.
I consider myself straight because I'm more attracted to men than to women. I've always been attracted to men.
I am (sort of) Bi;
And I kinda figured it out when one of my friends told me about her first date with a girl.
It set me to thinking and alot of random s**t happened, and in a couple of months I realized I was too. I'm hesitant to call myself bi because I've never actually been in a relationship with a girl.

And I completely agree with all the responses, loving someone for who they are and not what their gender is.

UNI---bone

            I agree;

            My mother is a Jehovah Witness so me saying I am bi would kill her.
            > . <

            Most my friends are gay/bi :3
            So it wasn't hard for me to tell them.



I know what you mean!
My father is an elder, and my mother a full time, erm, precursor. Idk how you say that in English. She's also homophobic.

It would absolutely make them go nuts. I know my mom would try and get me kicked out, whilst my father would just mumble about how I've disappointed him so.
I dread the day when I tell them.

When I was maybe 14, I thought I was bisexual, because I saw a pornographic image of two girls that turned me on, and for non-sexual reasons- I have a bit of a Mother Hen complex and it goes into overdrive with women. Because girls are more likely to act vulnerable and tender than boys, and it just makes me want to protect them and take care of them, you know?

And then I wanted to be a lesbian, because I was in a huge rut, a really negative frame of mind, and I thought all men were basically rapists.

But I found out I'm not cut out for it. I don't want to kiss girls. I don't want to sleep with girls. I don't want to be in a romantic relationship with girls.

So, for future reference, girls don't turn lesbian just because they hate guys, or to spite men... you either are lesbian, or you aren't. I WISHED I was so that it could provide an escape from my problems, but I wasn't, and I couldn't make myself be.
She-Lich

So, for future reference, girls don't turn lesbian just because they hate guys, or to spite men... you either are lesbian, or you aren't. I WISHED I was so that it could provide an escape from my problems, but I wasn't, and I couldn't make myself be.


Some do...some don't. Honestly, I don't think it's something that is so matter of fact. Some are perhaps born gay, some choose to act that way, some never really know, some never really care.

While I feel some people may be "born" a certain orientation, for the most part we just sort of choose one. Half the time we probably don't even know why we chose the orientation we did, but we never question because we become accustomed to it.
I'm lesbian.

I've know it for, like, ever but I was just in denial. I've dated more guys than girls because I thought that I was straight/bisexual for a while. The girl I'm with is my first girlfriend and is just so... perfect. I love her so much. I really have no idea what I would be today without her. She is DEFINETELY the one. >w<

Girls are just, in my opinion, better, I guess. I mean, I like men but... I don't LIKE them. But I guess I'm on the same level as a straight man since I like girls too, eh?

By the way, I'm 15. It doesn't really matter, though. If you're young enough to know you're straight then you're young enough to know you're homosexual, right?
In general, I'm gay.

I'm also something of a psudonecrophile, and an osteophile in that I am attracted to corpses in a particular near-skeletal state of decay (what I like to call the dry dead), and actual skeletons--but only on a fantasy setting. I am not attracted to REAL dead people. Meaning, I like animated corpses, or characters who look corpuscular, which obviously aren't real. (zombies, undead, Mammon, skull-faces, personifications of Death, etc). I think this stems from a read of Bradburry's take on Death and the Maiden when I was just that side of puberty and reading Gaston Leroux's The Phantom of the Opera just this side of it. (yes, ladies, it was a book before it was a silly musical/movie)
I used to question my sexuality, thinking that I might be bisexual, but then I got to reading about it more, mostly on Gaia. I could never be emotionally attatched to a girl as I could to a boy. I don't think of girls in that way. Sexually... not much either. I don't think I could ever be bisexual or even homosexual. I have more a prefrence for men over women. Not that I degrade bisexuals or homosexuals, it's just how I am.
I'm pansexual, which most people don't like to address as a real sexuality. Either that or they like to say it's the same thing as being bisexual, which is most definitely not the case considering bi means two and pan means many. Being a pansexual, I find myself attracted to men, women, MTF or FTM transgendered people, or many of the other gender identities in our world today.
Well being in California you don't really get a choice emo

LOL just joking. I'm Straight at least 90.999999% Straight anyway. Yeah I thought I could be bi for a while but yeah I'm not a huge fan of the male body. I don't even really like looking at myself naked unless I'm with a woman.
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She-Lich
When I was maybe 14, I thought I was bisexual, because I saw a pornographic image of two girls that turned me on, and for non-sexual reasons- I have a bit of a Mother Hen complex and it goes into overdrive with women. Because girls are more likely to act vulnerable and tender than boys, and it just makes me want to protect them and take care of them, you know?

And then I wanted to be a lesbian, because I was in a huge rut, a really negative frame of mind, and I thought all men were basically rapists.

But I found out I'm not cut out for it. I don't want to kiss girls. I don't want to sleep with girls. I don't want to be in a romantic relationship with girls.

So, for future reference, girls don't turn lesbian just because they hate guys, or to spite men... you either are lesbian, or you aren't. I WISHED I was so that it could provide an escape from my problems, but I wasn't, and I couldn't make myself be.
Did you know that almost all girls get sexually aroused when they see a movie with lesbian pornographic content? As much as girls dislike to point out this fact and generally try to hide it, this has been proven by a study and by almost all of the girls I've been with, and yes some tried to hide it thinking it is a moral deviation of some sort. By all means this should not mean that a girl is lesbian if she feels this, know that it is all normal. As for me, I never felt any type of sexual attraction towards the male anatomy, behavior or anything else that is considered sexual these days. The female anatomy and behavior is very sexually stimulating for me. Just thinking of the soft skin of a female sends waves of pleasure, no wonder they are turned on by themselves, homosexuals really do miss out. So that should make me straight. All in all, it's the work of hormones actually and their level, androgen and estrogen.

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