Sexuality session. . .

[elainexe]

SonnyBlood

I am pansexual. How I describe it personally is, "What's in your pants doesn't make or break if I like you!" But on a more official matter, I say that "I love who I love, regardless of gender*, sex*, or lack of identification with."

*(Yes, there is a difference between gender and sex.)

I found out that I was pansexual not that long ago (7 months with my gf as of yesterday--5 months BFF beforehand), but looking back all my life, my being pansexual makes much sense. ^___^

For example, I have never had any random sexual desire for random hot people. (It's the person/ality themselves that turn me on blaugh ), but when I become very close to a friend, girl or boy, I see how sexy they really are. xd Sounds kinda weird, but...

And then, as I said before, though I have never had the opportunity in person, I would love them even if they were a different gender than of their sex, or if they were not identified with either.

But I have to say it would be very much more difficult for a guy to get a chance with me, cuz most guys minds turn off when they're sex drive is turned on, and I have been hurt just way too much to let myself be hurt again. But I'm not worrying about it, cuz I think my gf is the one. heart

Hope I gave you some valuable insight!

--Sonny!

Wow, I didn't expect to find someone exactly like me! O__O
I'd call it pansexual with some aspects of asexuality.
However, I have a question. What's this difference you speak of between sex and gender?? I've always thought it as the same ^^;

And for other people, to define pansexuality more directly-- it's different from bisexuality in that some people find that restrictive and doesn't address that some people don't fit neatly into one sex or the other, like transsexuals and intersex people.

[pulchritudinous soup]

Accido_Beauty

Madam_Eccentrickk

I'm Asexual, but hetero if you catch my drift.
In other words, I don't feel sexual attraction to people, I love them minus the physical part.
But I don't like girls, only males.

LOL Asexual means you can reproduce on your own. I think you need to reword that. blaugh

There's asexuality and asexual reproduction.

They're referring to asexuality.

[pulchritudinous soup]

I'm a lesbian.

I have had my same-sex attraction since I was young. I recall my first crush on an older female, who was in grade 8, when I was in grade 2. I am now in a relationship and I love her.

I have never detested males. In fact, I find them fun companions and I have had many male friends. I have no distinct repulsion against males--I simply feel no sexual attraction towards them. Yes, I have thought about sex with men but the concept of a relationship stays within the same-sex. Though, I believe my fantasy with ******** a man has to do with their specific organ and the pleasure that it can bring... It can easily be produced 'artificially' (d***o's) and it's not the only way I can gain sexual satisfaction. Actually, I am satisfied much quicker with other techniques. Then again, I'm a curious individual so my lust for men could be out of pure curiosity.

Otherwise, I believe that I am furthermore homosexual than bisexual. I know, for a fact, that I am not heterosexual. Though, if I fall for you, then I fall for you; not your gender.

But, we're talking about the overall perspective... Right?

[Morgris]

I've always just assumed I was straight and I have no desire to experiment with men. My only desire is women, in which I refuse to share with other men (No 2 man - 1 Girl 3way) I've simply always known.

[Sanguine Fleur]

When I was in the sixth grade, I noticed that I was staring not only at guys as they walked past but at girls as well. I didn't feel comfortable calling myself a bisexual until I'd at least kissed another girl.

[Sanguine Fleur]

pulchritudinous soup

Though, if I fall for you, then I fall for you; not your gender.

I agree completely. If I love someone, it's for who they are, not what they are.

[SonnyBlood]

To answer elainexe's question...

Sex is determined by what reproductive organs you have by birth, while gender is more of an interpretational aspect of whether that personal is male or female at heart. If that makes sense? question

--Sonny!

[Violet Fog]

I am straight, and deeply in love with a man.

However, I was sexually abused by a man as a young child, so I find men in general to be threatening. Porn bothers me greatly, because viewing men as sexual beings makes me uneasy and uncomfortable. Lesbian porn of course, does not frighten me in the least.


That being said, I trust my boyfriend with my body completely and have no issues being with him.


I believe we were 'meant to be', as cheesy as that sounds, and besides my abuser he's the only one who has touched me in any romantic or sexual way.

[keiwo]

i don't really know what to describe myself as. i am more often sexually attracted to males, but i seem to be more compelled to pursue romantic with relationships with girls (i am physically attracted to them, but it's rare for me to find a girl i actually want to have sex with as opposed to just cuddling/kissing/holding hands). i guess you could call me bisexual, but eh. as other people have said throughout this thread: i fall for people according to who they are, not what they are

[Izis-San]

i am bi-curious or whatever. i have expermented with girls and i liked it. but i do like males..i could mabye see me dating a girl....i come from a strong christan family.. sad

i do have a boyfriend and he knows that i am bi-curious...

i think bi-curious means that your just curious...idk tho

[Suzuku90]

I'd always assumed I was straight, up until I was about ten or eleven. I figured that I found guys attractive, and just appreciated the female body. A while later, after thinking on it occasionally and observing my feelings, I decided that I am, in fact, attracted to both sexes. I find guys more sexually attractive and girls more physically attractive, but based on the likelihood of dating either, I would probably be a 4.5 on the Kinsey scale. But my sexuality at the moment is also an assumption; I could be a bi-curious lesbian, completely bisexual, or a lesbian with an appreciation for the male body. But because of how I feel now, I identify as bisexual.

[chris141996]

I'm bi. I like girls more. I like boys baout 60% and girls 40%. BUT I've have no boyfriends yets. Btu I've had a few girlsfriends.

[ZachyDark]

I'm gay. I guess I really just don't get attracted to girls. I can admire their beauty, I just can't *love* it. Guys are a whole different story. I could talk for a few minutes about the female body but I could spend hours talking about the male body.

There's one sentence that sums all my feelings up:
I'm your friend before I'm gay.
Meaning sexuality isn't important, it's who you are that counts :]

[lexipthemudkip]

Hetero, here.
I know this for sure because once, me and my friend were drunk and she kissed me... and I was like "ehhh no."
I like guys way better.