PRE-MARITAL SEX? AGREE TO IT?

[Pocketed Crumbs]

My boyfriend threatens my virginity everyday with his hormones, but I like the idea of waiting until after marriage. I much prefer the idea of giving my virginity to my husband, instead of some boy. Of course, that boy could someday be my husband, but I don't know that for sure. So I'm waiting.

[False Dichotomy]

I don't think it's right, but I'm rather closed mouthed about it. I don't throw my belief on other people. Humans have an insatiable appetite to bone, even if it causes them trouble. Nothing anyone says is going to stop that from happening. I'd rather have proper birth control made more easily accessible by women, and taught in schools, than to follow some false delusion that, some how, people aren't going to play pelvic tango every time they get some alone time.

[Sneaker Pimps]

There is nothing wrong with it. Just be responsible and be able to handle yourself maturely.

[catnapgood]

Pre-marital sex doesn't matter to me.
But, than again I don't really see myself being married.

My parents also had me and my sister before marriage. Our family is wonderful though, so I don't see any issue with sex or children before marriage. As long As the deal is carried out though.
If I were to have children with my partner, I'm with them forever. A wedding can come along later.

[Lesser Tile]

Sex in general is fine if it's with me. Any other form of sex is yucky, unnatural, immoral sin, unless the girl and boy are both very unattractive, or the girl is infertile or has Aids.

[imtheamericanidiot]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

[Everlasting Radiance]

I can't see anything wrong with it. Although it's more special with somebody that you love. You don't have to be married to them. And if two people wish to have sex and they aren't even really that in love, that's their business and not mine. If some people want to wait for marriage, that's their right, but people need to stop being so judgmental.

[drnachos98c]

[King Khyber]

There is nothing wrong with it.

[daChaosKitty]

It has been nothing but an irritation to me, as yet. I'll wait, then, and see how marital sex works out for me.

[Stephy-Powers]

I think you should at least be in a committed relationship with someone before having sex with them. I think the whole pre-marital sex deal is too old fashioned. How does someone do that with today's society?

[myclubistheclub]

The thing is, people can always get divorced. So when someone's saying, "No, because after you do have sex your partner may backout." I can't help but laugh a little outloud. As long as you're in a committed relationship is fine, but remember that they may start not caring about you, even after you're married.

[Silvern Strings]

I have no problem with it. I find it to be super fun, actually.
Sex is sex. Marriage is simply a legal contract that can take on spiritual or religious means as well.
Marriage or not, sex should be done responsibly and with care.

I agree with a first post in that pre-marital sex being illegal or immoral comes from times where women were merely objects in a man's world.

/Edit
Thought I'd add in since I saw virginity mentioned.
I was going to wait until I was married to have sex, but a certain gentleman was nice enough to rape me and ruin that whole idea.
I also don't see myself getting married unless a guy is really amazing at convincing me to.
I've seen what marriages can do to people as there are a whole slew of awful ones in my family.
I don't see why such a thing should be a requirement to participate in sex if you're really wanting to and can do it responsibly.
So after careful thinking about it, I found a partner worth something and began to have some fun.

Remember kids; have sex responsibly and don't get hitched to a jerk just to get it. ^ ^~

[Allicat12-XD]

sex is healthy as long as it's done safely and responsibly which is why i believe sex ed is an vital part of a child's education.

[ChiyoLuxuria]

I don't see a problem with it. I was sexually abused when I was younger and the influence of my grandparents faith made me feel horrible that I would never be able to give my virginity to someone I wanted to. After I had consensual sex for the first time I realized that sex is just sex, what makes it special or not is the emotion attached to it.
I've never really been inclined to believe that only one person can be worthy of your virginity or for passionate love-making. Even though my first ex and I aren't together I know I loved him and the time we spent together wasn't a waste.
My last ex and I aren't on good terms right now but, at the time, he was a wonderful person and just because it ended badly, that doesn't mean that our time together was worthless and regretful. There's always a possibility a relationship will fail, even after you get married, but that doesn't mean the love you had at the time wasn't real and that what you did with that person wasn't meaningful.