Ask Jappleack
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- Posted: Mon, 20 Feb 2012 14:44:48 +0000
If those are the correct words, for having multiple or one partner.
I mean multiple partners, at the same time (mind out of the gutter plz loll) and when I imagine a serious relationship with multiple partners I can't figure out how itd work, if I were involved, I mean.. Gah hard to explain.
Society is highly based on monogamous relationships, its in nearly all movies, the Love not loves of your life, etc.
Because polygamous relationships should technically be just as valid, I still would seem awkward for people who are used to being reserved or raised in a monogamous society.
So when I ponder on this its extremely awkward, Like I can imagine it working out, but like, let's say you are with two people of the gender you are attracted to, and they have their time together being intimate one on one, what the heck do you do? Watch? Twiddle your thumbs? Spend time BY YOURSELF on a hobby, itd be redundantish, unless you need the alone time of course. But its harder to see it working out, jealousy would be a complication as well.
And its just wierd to be raised from a monogamous world and consider a polygamous relationship, most peopel would be wierded out when they first hear of this kind fo relationship unless they are pervs and think 'repeated threesomes! yes im in' Im talking a serious relationship. I know falling in love or loving multiple people at once is highly possible, but still.
What are your thoughts?
I mean multiple partners, at the same time (mind out of the gutter plz loll) and when I imagine a serious relationship with multiple partners I can't figure out how itd work, if I were involved, I mean.. Gah hard to explain.
Society is highly based on monogamous relationships, its in nearly all movies, the Love not loves of your life, etc.
Because polygamous relationships should technically be just as valid, I still would seem awkward for people who are used to being reserved or raised in a monogamous society.
So when I ponder on this its extremely awkward, Like I can imagine it working out, but like, let's say you are with two people of the gender you are attracted to, and they have their time together being intimate one on one, what the heck do you do? Watch? Twiddle your thumbs? Spend time BY YOURSELF on a hobby, itd be redundantish, unless you need the alone time of course. But its harder to see it working out, jealousy would be a complication as well.
And its just wierd to be raised from a monogamous world and consider a polygamous relationship, most peopel would be wierded out when they first hear of this kind fo relationship unless they are pervs and think 'repeated threesomes! yes im in' Im talking a serious relationship. I know falling in love or loving multiple people at once is highly possible, but still.
What are your thoughts?