Girls: Be aware! This is important!

[Demyan The Devil]

Herbonics

Melly Kwistmass

Herbonics

"Just dealing with it" was aimed at the girls who only take birth control so they can be little sexual whores, not towards people who need to take it due to health condition. Also for pain there is aspirin, and yes I get sometimes aspirin is not strong enough.

Now leave me alone and stop quoting me because I don't really care that much.

You made the comment, you got reactions. Now, YOU deal. Nice generalization there, too. Girls who take responsibility and use contraception are whores? The ******** is this, the 18th century?

I am dealing; apparently, you're not.

As I said before, I don't care that much.

You're saying you don't care because you don't like that you've pissed people off with your ignorant comment and want to wriggle out of it.

[Teglee]

Melly Kwistmass

Herbonics

Melly Kwistmass

Herbonics

"Just dealing with it" was aimed at the girls who only take birth control so they can be little sexual whores, not towards people who need to take it due to health condition. Also for pain there is aspirin, and yes I get sometimes aspirin is not strong enough.

Now leave me alone and stop quoting me because I don't really care that much.

You made the comment, you got reactions. Now, YOU deal. Nice generalization there, too. Girls who take responsibility and use contraception are whores? The ******** is this, the 18th century?

I am dealing; apparently, you're not.

As I said before, I don't care that much.

You're saying you don't care because you don't like that you've pissed people off with your ignorant comment and want to wriggle out of it.

Not really.
I say this comment because I don't believe teens should be having sex at all, and I think that birth control gives them a reason to.
The rate of teen pregnancy is disgusting. Does no one know how to wait until they're of age?

[Demyan The Devil]

Herbonics

Not really.
I say this comment because I don't believe teens should be having sex at all, and I think that birth control gives them a reason to.
The rate of teen pregnancy is disgusting. Does no one know how to wait until they're of age?

I don't agree with young teenagers ******** either, but they're going to do it anyway. They've been doing it since the very beginning. At least now there's methods to reduce the accidental pregnancies.

[Teglee]

Melly Kwistmass

Herbonics

Not really.
I say this comment because I don't believe teens should be having sex at all, and I think that birth control gives them a reason to.
The rate of teen pregnancy is disgusting. Does no one know how to wait until they're of age?

I don't agree with young teenagers ******** either, but they're going to do it anyway. They've been doing it since the very beginning. At least now there's methods to reduce the accidental pregnancies.

I'm aware it's not going to stop ever, but this is just why I frown upon birth control so much. That is all.

[Ladybird Sauce]

Herbonics

"Just dealing with it" was aimed at the girls who only take birth control so they can be little sexual whores, not towards people who need to take it due to health condition. Also for pain there is aspirin, and yes I get sometimes aspirin is not strong enough.

Now leave me alone and stop quoting me because I don't really care that much.

If you were aiming the "just deal with it" at girls who are responsible enough to protect themselves from pregnancy, why didn't you say that after "I know how to control my sexual activity" rather than as part of your comment about using the pill to control periods? Looks like someone's back pedalling. lol

I can control my sexual activity too. I can also control my consumption of apples - if I wanted to, I could never eat apples again. But apples are good for me and they taste delicious, so despite the fact that I can stop myself if I need or want to, I eat apples quite regularly. The same goes for sex. And I'd rather be considered a whore by some people than irresponsibly bring a child into a relationship that isn't ready.

[Teglee]

Ladybird Sauce

Herbonics

"Just dealing with it" was aimed at the girls who only take birth control so they can be little sexual whores, not towards people who need to take it due to health condition. Also for pain there is aspirin, and yes I get sometimes aspirin is not strong enough.

Now leave me alone and stop quoting me because I don't really care that much.

If you were aiming the "just deal with it" at girls who are responsible enough to protect themselves from pregnancy, why didn't you say that after "I know how to control my sexual activity" rather than as part of your comment about using the pill to control periods? Looks like someone's back pedalling. lol

I can control my sexual activity too. I can also control my consumption of apples - if I wanted to, I could never eat apples again. But apples are good for me and they taste delicious, so despite the fact that I can stop myself if I need or want to, I eat apples quite regularly. The same goes for sex. And I'd rather be considered a whore by some people than irresponsibly bring a child into a relationship that isn't ready.

Awesome.

Read the rest of the quotes from before and you'd see why I said that.
Also, can you read, I said I don't really care and not to quote me, because I am closed to this issue.

edit: Actually, let me tell you a little story, since no one here ******** gets why I'm so against the use of your 'protective' pill:

Let's take 16 year old Rachel and 17 year old Kurt who both decide to drop out their junior year because they're madly in love. They use condoms and birth control when ever they decide to get it on, but at some point, the protection they use doesn't work, not even the precious control pill. 9 months later comes a child irresponsibly born, and both parents decide to go finish school while leaving the child alone with her drunken aunt and her friend to watch her.
I was brought up like s**t.
Sexual abstinence is bliss to me.
Condoms and birth control don't always work.
Hooray they're here I guess, because I will admit they do help: about 60% of the time.

[Demyan The Devil]

Awww, someone's bitter.

So just because your parents were irresponsible means everyone else is the only way to stop it is to take away the very thing which they were using to be responsible?

Sorry about your drunken aunt but by the sound of it your parents actually tried to take responsibility again by finishing their education so that they could support their child.

[-EboniiSkinn-]

In all honesty, I clicked on this topic to see how unimportant it really was. cat_sweatdrop

Guilty as charged.

[Ladybird Sauce]

Herbonics

Ladybird Sauce

Herbonics

"Just dealing with it" was aimed at the girls who only take birth control so they can be little sexual whores, not towards people who need to take it due to health condition. Also for pain there is aspirin, and yes I get sometimes aspirin is not strong enough.

Now leave me alone and stop quoting me because I don't really care that much.

If you were aiming the "just deal with it" at girls who are responsible enough to protect themselves from pregnancy, why didn't you say that after "I know how to control my sexual activity" rather than as part of your comment about using the pill to control periods? Looks like someone's back pedalling. lol

I can control my sexual activity too. I can also control my consumption of apples - if I wanted to, I could never eat apples again. But apples are good for me and they taste delicious, so despite the fact that I can stop myself if I need or want to, I eat apples quite regularly. The same goes for sex. And I'd rather be considered a whore by some people than irresponsibly bring a child into a relationship that isn't ready.

Awesome.

Read the rest of the quotes from before and you'd see why I said that.
Also, can you read, I said I don't really care and not to quote me, because I am closed to this issue.

edit: Actually, let me tell you a little story, since no one here ******** gets why I'm so against the use of your 'protective' pill:

Let's take 16 year old Rachel and 17 year old Kurt who both decide to drop out their junior year because they're madly in love. They use condoms and birth control when ever they decide to get it on, but at some point, the protection they use doesn't work, not even the precious control pill. 9 months later comes a child irresponsibly born, and both parents decide to go finish school while leaving the child alone with her drunken aunt and her friend to watch her.
I was brought up like s**t.
Sexual abstinence is bliss to me.
Condoms and birth control don't always work.
Hooray they're here I guess, because I will admit they do help: about 60% of the time.

Sorry, but nothing that you've said explained why, in your first post, you told girls who use the pill to control their period to just deal with it. What you're saying now is completely different to what you said in your first post.

Do you really think that your parents would have just not had sex if they hadn't had access to the pill? The pill is 92% effective with typical use. This includes the people who miss pills and generally don't take it right. Condoms and pills used together are 98.8% effective with typical use (again, this includes people putting condoms on wrong and taking pills incorrectly). No matter what you teach teens, the rate of sexual activity stays roughly the same - there is nothing that's been proven to stop teens having sex, and while I understand your wish for teens to abstain, realistically it's never going to happen. But if all teens used condoms and pills, even imperfectly, then for every one child who had an upbringing like yours, 99 would never be conceived in the first place (let's also bear in mind that not all children born to teen parents have shitty lives, and that the statistics are for pregnancies resulting when people use contraception, not births).

The pill didn't cause your misfortunes - your parents' choice to have sex, potentially their misuse of contraception, their decision not to abort, their decision to keep you, their refusal or inability to find you safe and happy childcare, and quite possibly a lack of satisfactory government assistance caused your misfortunes. Meanwhile, the pill is helping millions of people (including myself and many of my friends and family, most of whom are adults, and some of whom are married) avoid a pregnancy until they're ready for a child, so that we don't end up having to raise our own children in a situation like yours.

[Teglee]

Melly Kwistmass

Awww, someone's bitter.

So just because your parents were irresponsible means everyone else is the only way to stop it is to take away the very thing which they were using to be responsible?

Sorry about your drunken aunt but by the sound of it your parents actually tried to take responsibility again by finishing their education so that they could support their child.

I feel there should be something better than pills, condoms, to keep people from being pregnant so they can go ahead and enjoy their sexual interactions.

As to the point of my parents being irresponsible, many of you said before that taking pills and using protection helps them be responsible. Are we all being hypocrites now?

My mind is always closed to this matter, so sorry for being a b***h I suppose. I just think there should be something else to be done about it besides swallow some pills and going at it.

[Demyan The Devil]

The only other effective solution is sterilization (tubal ligation and vasectomies), but obviously they're not recommended to young people. It's a fairly complicated surgical procedure, and for women it's very difficult to reverse.

[Pill Fix]

I am a male but I do know a cheap but just as effective birth control is vitamin C. You just need to take alot.

Where lemon juice creates an unfriendly environment in the v****a for sperm, Vitamin C causes the uterus to become unfriendly to any fertilized egg and reduce the chance of implantation. This is much like the birth control pill, but Vitamin C will also cause the womb to shed its’ lining. This is useful if your period is a day or so late due to stress or other non-pregnancy related reasons. Do Not Use if you suspect you are pregnant. Use of this vitamin according to the directions for birth control during the first 6 weeks of pregnancy can cause a miscarriage.

Tadah~