008: Thank you for your input in the matter.
spider_desu: I apologize for my bluntness, it just happens to be my preference when writing as being direct sometimes feels a little vulgar for me and I might end up appearing rude.
When I spoke about foods that harm people, I wasn't really thinking about fast food, although it is unhealthy, there are other foods that are more dangerous. Foods that virtually have no nutrients in them whatsoever at all, and have artificial flavors such as monosodium glutamate which simulates the flavor in meats added to them to trick the mouth into thinking that it is eating food. The body will still feel hungry after eating these foods, causing the person to have to eat more as their body isn't getting what it needs to operate correctly. This leads to many people becoming ill over time from eating large amounts of this food.
You know how they say that power corrupts? Money is a form of power, and some people who are undisciplined and greedy, will be overtaken by the power of money, and will want more of it even if it means that other people will be harmed in the process. Same with knowledge, too much knowledge, another form of power, and an undisciplined person will become arrogant among other things.
Rhianna: Its not about if both genders disrespect each other or not. Its about why women in particular are victimized and how it impacts their behavior in the long term. Does it cause them to like to be naked?
Also, that lady you described, do you really want such a woman to exist? Would you actually want to visualize such a woman in your mind? Is it not a waste of thought energy to think of such things? Thought energy must be put to better use in order to find the answer and not be distracted by endless conflict that wasn't meant to exist. I hope that such a woman, finds peace and happiness in life, as such a situation, would clearly not be suitable for any person, ever.
zizi994: Thank you for your input and experience on the matter. Its good to have patience. Although, for me, I would never kiss in the lips unless I chose that girl. Only then would I kiss because I know I will be with her.
Braindead Kappa: Thank you for your words and experience on the matter. You have some wisdom, understanding, and flexible thinking. I hope you gain lots of wisdom later on and a full understanding of the world, in order to truly identify whats causing the problem that plagues all people. The truth about people is very shocking. I hope all people with some ability to understand eventually get to the level where they can finally see the problem for themselves. For now, the information is scarce and the evidence not present to really get to any conclusions about somethings.
Malsies: Thank you, I am 23 years old. It is true, that people enjoy different things, there are many ways to be happy, but I speak of some happinesses that can be supressed by introducing elements into the population that will have them set on living a lifestyle from the moment they are born, while other lifestyles that had been lived in older times, are being completely supressed so as future generations are born, not having a clue that certain ways of life had been lived while proving to be methods that were fulfilling. Now people are being born and are either willingly or unwillingly living these new lifestyles, believing that since it was already there, that nothing is wrong, and grow up into these lifestyles. Some lifestyles make people willing to bring harm to others just so they themselves can gain some sort of "happiness". Other lifestyles have people depressed, causing them to forget themselves in a harmful manner in order to deal with their ambient sadness. Its these lifestyles that make me feel ill, seeing people living them, and not knowing why they are trapped within these terrible cycles of suffering with no solution.
Celestial Lullaby: Thank you for your words and experience. For me, its the opposite, I don't need feelings in order to like a girl. Even if I knew a girl for a while, if I decide to like her, I will be attracted to her if I chose her. I don't work on the need for excitement in order to like. If I love the girl, no matter how much time has passed, I will be excited for her if I love her. Even without feelings, I would still love her, because you don't need feelings to love. Chemical feelings are something that comes with the body, and the body eventually goes away and takes those things along with it. That is why it is not a good use of time to listen to the chemical feelings, as they will not always be there. Its better to use your mind and try to get it to do what you want, than to just let them do as they please. Even if it hasn't been proven scientifically, its worth a try? I don't have the evidence or data other than my own experience.
babiboo001: Thanks for your words and experience on the matter.
CrippleThis: Thank you for your words and experience on the matter. I see that you have lived a way of life similar to what I spoke of, I can't really say its exactly what I speak of without asking a question or two that I don't really want to ask as it may depress some people. To be honest, the lifestyle I have talked about, is impossible to live in this "modern" society as there are several hundreds of things set up to prevent this from ever happening. I wish I could tell you why you have experienced that, but I don't want to cause you any stress as you seem to be happy enough. All I can tell you, is to live happily with him, and that you both be as unselfish with each other as possible in this society that suppresses relationships that try to live like that. I can't tell you how, but if you can't see it, it is better to not know for now I think. I would tell you if I had the solution to it. For now, just try to grow even more in understanding which you already have in good amounts. You seem to be good as you are, so for now, I can just tell you that you are doing really good so far considering the bad stuff that is present everywhere. You have good wisdom and you are able to understand what others can't.
spiderwebbing: Thank you for your words and experience on the subject.
monochromid liquid: Thank you for your words and experience on the subject, although, be wary. This society you live in, has many bad things set up. I hope that you grow in wisdom and understanding and that you get to a level were you will not fall apart. The reason of that because she makes you happy shouldn't be your reason for loving her. Love her for something more than that, rather than to love her because she just makes you happy. I hope you grow together and that you become a man that doesn't fall apart, but that protects her and loves her for a greater reason that you must find. Respect her and find another reason other than the feelings you are feeling to love her. The feelings you feel should be after you found what love means, rather than it being the reason for why your with her.
Rao the Zen Android: If it helps you to get it out of your mind, and I apologize if I caused you any form of stress. Although, I assure you I do not live in a bubble of any kind.
DBFreek: Thank you for your words and experience. It kinda made me sad, but the fact that you understand means you will find an answer. For some reason, many people are convinced that its something worthless rather than something special. I hope you find the happiness that you are looking for. I hope your past decisions don't cause you any further sadness than you already have. You have good wisdom and have flexible thinking.
V15U4L 3RR0R: Thank you for your experience.
Thank you everybody for this information and experience you have shared.
I wish I could talk about the things that are causing people problems.
I can tell you that, a guys eye, is the equivalent of a girls skin, in that a guy can feel good through his eye by looking at a girls skin, while a girl can feel good through her skin by being looked at by a guys eye.
The perversion of this, is for a guy to look at many girls skins, and for a girl to be looked at by many different guys. An example would be porn, a guy is looking at many naked girls, while the girl is being looked at by many different guys.
You can pretty much figure out the rest from there. Why was such a system introduced? What are the effects this has on the people involved? What kind of people is it creating? You'll find the answer by looking at society and seeing the way people treat each other. Why was such a way of life introduced if its going to cause people to act like this?
Also, I'm pretty sure some people are still assuming that I abide by some practices from these lifestyles.
This probably will be of a surprise to you. I myself, have never, to put it in slang terms "choked chicken". I never did that because I think its a selfish thing to do. I would only want to feel those type of feelings from the girl I chose. I also think doing something like that would make her sad.
All the decisions I have ever made, I chose them myself, I taught it to myself, I thought of it myself. I observe silently all around me.