CH1YO
It's good that you are not sour, that never helps. Bisexuality is fundamentally incompatible with monogamy though.
When someone is bisexual it just means that they are sexually attracted to both males and females. This does not mean that they are not about to have monogamist relationships, in fact most bisexual friends I have are in monogamist relationships and have been in that one relationship for years. A marriage couple that is a friend of my mother are both bisexual yet they have maintained a monogamist marriage for the last 10 years they have been married, before then they had more of an open relationship, they have been married for over 30 years.
CH1YO
Pornography is not really a healthy outlet.
What is bad with porn? Consenting adults have sex and an adult watches it to receive pleasure. It is the some as any movie you watch expect that the pleasure is more sexual.
CH1YO
The natural undifferentiated state is bisexuality.
Pornography is not healthy essentially as it is concerned with enjoying a third party's sexual gratification; it leads to a fetish effect and a loss of intimate feeling.
You do understand that most adults enjoy porn in some shape or form. If what you are saying is true, then almost everyone would have a loss of intimate feeling, I don't see this happening...
Also, there is nothing wrong with enjoying another person's pleasure in something. When someone gives birth you will be happy with them, when someone receives a gift you are happy for them, how is this different?
CH1YO
Not really, I only deal in sweeping generalisations.
That is a great way to stumble through life never understanding a bit of what you see.