Funky Cocoa
Again this is going off course. =__=
I personally don't see the source of your complaint. You said earlier it's because they "act macho" and are "strict", mentioned it was because of seeing people complain, and then you mentioned after that you had a run-in with them on more than one occasion.
They are the authority of the site. They would have to speak to members as that authority, including stating the repercussions of continuing to make violations. Comparing them to police is would be accurate in my opinion- that's what Moderators do. But, just like police brutality is real, but rare, so is
mod brutality.
I am seeing nothing here where you have a case that supports that they need to reign it in. I do not understand where you are coming from at all.