Okay baby, now I'm actually pissed at you.
mad
You know how she's been asking for it? I lurk this thread and post whenever there's something worth talking about, and frankly she's been asking for the status for a while. You said you didn't even see her asking about the status for the first like three times at least.
I take both sides here; and she kind has a right to be pissed about it.
I understand her constantly nagging would definitely deserve a commission cancellation, but she hasn't been doing that! All she's done was ask how it was going, which you promptly ignored. Then finally when s**t hit the fan and she flipped out, you kind of sort of put the entire blamed her, excuse me, for wondering how her commission was going?
gonk
That's just not right, and after you've hid behind one problem or another for a few weeks still avoiding the fight (and to avoid a fight you've avoided her, constantly, completely, like just in a total "huh, there's person I owe and explanation to? What person? I don't see no person!" ) I understand how she'd feel about your harddrive busting right on the spot.
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Now I know you have a shitty computer and all that's due to kick the bucket any second, but again, from a point of view of an angry person who's done nothing but asked about her commish status and expressed clear discontent with the service of telling her just what the heck is going on for quite a while, a busted harddrive may look a little too convinient at a time like this. >______________<;;;;
Especially after you've told her her commish was due in the next batch, you've cracked updates on three songs but not hers and when she requested whatever progress was done on hers to be updated your computer died.
WAIT, NO, I'm
not saying you're lying, I read this and I think it may sound like that. No, that's not what I'm saying. I frankly believe your computer was going to die within a week after you told me it didn't have enough RAM to run firefox/Gaia and music-making software at the sime time, so I'm not surprised your harddrive is gone.
Frankly I had photoshop 7 that at some point refused to save files so I had to screenshot them and save them in MSpaint, but do understand where she's coming from. But I don't really think that's what RC believes.
It's just kind of... mean and uncalled for considering you're kinda sorta in the wrong (and she may be impatient, but she did only ask for status after clear answers were failed to be given to her which may be fault, but not as bad as hiding and avoiding).
I've pulled out my shitstorm umbrella a while ago 'cause this fight was very obviously coming, and I've been watching every single exchnage between you guys, so do take this as an opinion of your friend who is a completely neutral party in the matter.
So I do kinda think you both need to chill the ******** out, she needs to take anxiety pills and you need to turn back and realize canceling her commsion right on the spot after all that red from you is kind of, well, cowardly.
I told her in PMs that patience is a virtue and I trust you will complete your comishes sooner or later, and I've backed it up with the fact that I had no porblem fully accepting the trade and shipping over the money for all three songs two of which are not made yet. Basically I chewed her out too for being more pushy than nessisary, so she just needs to be patient and I'll talk to you about how you shouldn't treat customers (especially cancel commishes on provocation), but I guess I'm kind of late and I'm frankly disappointed how this is turned out, dissapointed in both of yours level of maturity and way of solving conflicts.
One hides, the other one picks a fight and hides. What the ********. confused
Frankly I think it's all the IRL stress coming out from both sides. That's why I take out my IRL stress on things like hair and clothes, and not my internet friends.
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Long a** post.
Eww.
Long pacifier post cooties.
She got one of these too.
dramallama