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Yes! Thank you!! mrgreen

I originally posted this in the test forum before seeing this forum. I'm really sorry. sweatdrop
I know that you can get you avatar in your sig, but how do you get your "dream" avatar in your sig, as some people have?
In other words, say I really wanted to have my avatar wearing stuff from my wishlist, but couldn't afford it. How would I get the image of my avatar wearing the stuff into my sig?

I made a post in the wrong forum. Could a mod please delete this thread? I'm sorry!!

I have no freakin' idea why this is.
Some people are just asses.
I cut and my personality --according to many-- seems emo.
I don't cut for attention. I try to hide my cuts. I have self-destructive habits. I wouldn't recommend them to anyone. I hate when people cut for attention. It's immature and makes the people who actually cut for a reason seem like that too.
Cutting is not a fashion statement. It is not 'cool.' And please, for the love of god, do NOT cut for the scars.
The two may seem like they go together, but I assure you, they do not. I know plenty of people with an emo personality but they don't cut. It seems the popularized version of emo cuts themself. Not all.
I freaking hate stereotypes.. I joke about them, but when someone uses them to judge a person, that's f***ing rude.

Indeed, my parents know. So do some of my friends. They don't really understand it. I've just been looking for someone to understand the impulse that sets me off to do it.

I, too, am a cutter.
For almost five years, I have been.
It's not a good thing. Just keep in mind, if you cut, the pain can be addictive. Very addictive.
Here's the reason why: When your body feels pain, it sends out endorphins. Endorphins are like the body's natural pain killers. These chemicals are released when a person eats junk food or if one feels pain. The endorphins create a somewhat numb feeling. Yes, it is highly addictive.
You shouldn't have started, but my advice is to try and avoid the urge in your mind that tells you to cut. Therapy can help too.

I didn't have a first kiss until last year. I regret not waiting since I ended up being cheated on in the end.
Just remember that it's really awkward the first few times you make the first move.

Just as a warning, I will NOT tolerate people saying that I'm suicidal. This problem is NOT suicidal. If you say anything of the sort, you officially lose any ounce of respect I may have for you.

Also, do NOT get ANY ideas from my post. This is a habit that is highly addictive and is actually considered a form of OCD.

I will try to explain this well.

So I have a habit of picking at my arms. What that means is basically me taking my nails and squeezing a pore until it swells up. Why: to get rid of blackheads and zits.
It sounds pathetic, I know and I know I could use facewash, but I do this to my face and arms and I'm beginning to scare myself. I just did it one random day and BOOM, I'm addicted now, three, four years later. Again, call me pathetic, but that's what happened.
I'm trying to stop. This is getting to the point of seriousness. I can't change my clothing without picking at my arms, or my back, or my legs.
What I need is some help for stopping. Anything. This isn't one thing where I can just pick less each day.
Any suggestions for me to stop?