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.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:14 pm
SpringTimeFox
Melasaurus
SpringTimeFox
The Great Heat Miser
SpringTimeFox
A small bird or rodent left on the bed tells them, I care.


              You're choosing to be with these slimy people.
              It is obviously something you don't want to remedy.


Why would she be able to have confidence in herself after years of abuse from various people? Why would she be able to say that she's capable of living by herself when people who've played large roles in her life have spent their time telling her the exact opposite? How does that make sense to you?
A small bird or rodent left on the bed tells them, I care.


              Because my whole life I've been living her situation.
              Just recently, I've cut all ties with the slime balls who ruined my last twenty years.
              Being that I was able to do it, I expect she can as well.


wasnt it hard losing your mom and dad though? ..
A small bird or rodent left on the bed tells them, I care.


              After being passed between the two for the majority of my life, after being beaten and choked, after being told I'm not good enough for the one mistake I made, after all the depression meds I had to take because of them?
              I dropped my father when I was 11.
              I cut complete contact with my father's side of the family earlier this year.

              I still talk to my mother.

              As for taking twenty years?
              The first eighteen was mandatory, the nineteenth was spent almost homeless, and the early part of the twentieth was spent realizing I had to get away.
              stare


i used to be on prozak and some days it would help if i was in an okay mood
but if i took it while sad it made me 10 times more depressed
i will never take those pills again confused

for me my mom is more of the problem instead of my dad
i am so sorry for what you had to go through...
causing any 1 mistake shouldnt put you in the hands of abuse.. no one should be abused confused

i think youre really strong for putting up with it for so long and then ending it completely
that takes pure bravery
thats something hard for me because i know my whole family will hate me because they dont see abuse as anything big
its hard to sit there and choose between :

1. get out forever and be happy+abuse free, but yet not have a family to celebrate holidays with or call if i need help..

or

2. stay and get abused some more physically and emotionally while digging deeper in depression.. but yet still having a family that cares enough to give me shelter and food

i always pick the 2nd because i dont want to go through life with no family..
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 5:17 pm
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.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:33 am
SpringTimeFox
The Great Heat Miser
SpringTimeFox
A small bird or rodent left on the bed tells them, I care.


              You're choosing to be with these slimy people.
              It is obviously something you don't want to remedy.


Why would she be able to have confidence in herself after years of abuse from various people? Why would she be able to say that she's capable of living by herself when people who've played large roles in her life have spent their time telling her the exact opposite? How does that make sense to you?
A small bird or rodent left on the bed tells them, I care.


              Because my whole life I've been living her situation.
              Just recently, I've cut all ties with the slime balls who ruined my last twenty years.
              Being that I was able to do it, I expect she can as well.


wasnt it hard losing your mom and dad though? ..
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:26 am
StixNStones
im sorry to hear that you must live like this, many females go through similar problems too. Thats what makes girls like you the stronger ones, the ones that will succeed in life, materialistic things may come but you will understand that this will make you mentally fit for anything else that comes your way in life. I encourage you to push forward and just do the things you're suppose to do :]. Also, i persoanlly hate when guys treat girls like their "just" a girlfriend or even a friend, girls have enough to deal with then your "guy drama". anyways just keep pulling through smile best wishes friend
-StixNStones


thankyou *hugs* so much
the last guy really did do me wrong.. i cant stand that he hasnt told the truth once and that he used me.. i cant believe how sweet i thought he was but turns out it was all a lie and he just used me and practically raped me as well. he got what he wanted, heard the preggo news and lost interest.. only used me one last time saying we'd be together after a short break to get his head straight... and yeah.. then left next day and started flirting with many girls .. still lying to me that med get back together in a few months.. but.. i learned how much of a liar he was and got over him in a week and a half really.. it helps to see how trashy that person was to get over them.. though it sucks too sweatdrop
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:16 am
Jisu sama
Melasaurus
Jisu sama
I kind of feel most kids over-use the term abuse.
They complain about how their parents are over-protective, love another child more than the other, or how they can never be free from their house..
But I never hear of actual sexual or physical abuse...
Not saying what you have isn't abuse but if your really in a abusive home you should stop ranting online and get actual help.

As for your ex...I hope you got back to him about that one.


youre pretty :3
but nah
im almost 19 and know wut abuse is but i love my mom too much to just leave for good
everytime i do she begs me to come back and i feel back

abuse isnt a whipping or takin the phone away
abuse is actual choking, hitting, kicking and stuff like that


Thank you <3
and ah see 'age' I would of totally re-worded this post.
But if she really is in an abusing home wouldn't you want to be out and have her leave as well?



her out? o.o
its her home..

i should leave in 2-3 months.. 4 tops..
i do want to be out but no one helps her at home but me and no one gets her attitude/issues but me

she cried last time i left and it really broke my heart
i love her even though i know what she does is wrong
dont think you can stop loving your mom or dad no matter how bad they are confused
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:08 am
SpringTimeFox
A small bird or rodent left on the bed tells them, I care.


              You're choosing to be with these slimy people.
              It is obviously something you don't want to remedy.


nah man, im just blind and dumb

i forgive too easily and let tards get the best of me
tryin to change that tough
just need advice
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:06 am
Jisu sama
I kind of feel most kids over-use the term abuse.
They complain about how their parents are over-protective, love another child more than the other, or how they can never be free from their house..
But I never hear of actual sexual or physical abuse...
Not saying what you have isn't abuse but if your really in a abusive home you should stop ranting online and get actual help.

As for your ex...I hope you got back to him about that one.


youre pretty :3
but nah
im almost 19 and know wut abuse is but i love my mom too much to just leave for good
everytime i do she begs me to come back and i feel back

abuse isnt a whipping or takin the phone away
abuse is actual choking, hitting, kicking and stuff like that
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:05 am
Masochist Marduk
Melasaurus
Masochist Marduk
I take it this is the first time you've ever lost faith in humanity?


nah not really. lost it many times. but lying boys always bring back hope confused
He's lying because he knows the truth would hurt you.

i know man xD
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:00 am
Masochist Marduk
I take it this is the first time you've ever lost faith in humanity?


nah not really. lost it many times. but lying boys always bring back hope confused
.. Go to post 40 Lifestyle Discussion Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:00 am
Nikki `
gonk


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i has trash to give you
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