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Teach me English Go to post 8 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 6:44 am
It means, 'who cares'.
i'm not becoming bi, am i? Go to post 27 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 6:22 am
You're going to find alot of people are going to have trouble replying to this confused .
I think you're straight, its just that anybody's hormonese get perked up when they see the sight of nudity, be it female or male.
Post the first thing you think after seeing this picture. Go to post 382 Chatterbox Wed Jul 04, 2007 6:15 am
You must be very bored. Go play some cricket, that's a good chap smile .
I think there's an asian chick stalking me... Go to post 44 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 6:00 am
Tell us how old she is surprised .
BAPTIST = WHITE TRASH. Go to post 25 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 5:36 am
Watch what you're talking about.

1) I'm Baptist, and I happen to be asian.
2) Baptists are the same as all the other religions in Christianity: we worship Christ.
3) If you want to hate Christianity, go hate on Catholics.
Decaying Friendship. Go to post 34 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 3:12 am
As for now, I have to leave. My mom is calling me off the computer, and I still have summer reading to finish. Good night, ya'll.
Decaying Friendship. Go to post 34 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 3:08 am
Miss Saffy
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Not anytime soon, though. She's still quite young, and it will need to take much brainpower from her to think about this, which she won't want to do. As I said, she's really oblivious to things, and has a very short attention span.

grr...these are the things that really tick me off.

Why do you assume she won't be able to understand a serious conversation? Age has nothing to do with intelligence or reasoning, in fact it has nothing to do with it at all since those skills must have developed by the 4th grade. If it is important to you then I'm positive that she will put up the effort to comprehend the problem, in fact it may even help you realize that, from her point of view, there is no problem and it's just over analyzing from your side.


Oh, exactly. That's exactly how she would think of it. However, I'm basing this off of already how she treats me-- she hardly listens to what I say, and doodles or plays with her hair while I'm talking. On IM conference with our group of friends she doesn't acknowledge me at all, and proceeds to chat animatedly with the other members of our group. And to bring something like this up will probably endanger the relationship we already have, which would not be good.
Decaying Friendship. Go to post 34 General Discussion Wed Jul 04, 2007 3:05 am
Miss Saffy
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Miss Saffy
You know, usually it's the elders that drift apart from the youngsters.
I used to have a close friend since childhood but there was a 5 year difference. When I was 10 she was 15 and already off goofing off with her more "mature" friends.

The lesson I learned was that the age difference really matters in the friendship because of maturity level and ability. I was 10 at the time, I didn't go to their high school, I didn't understand who they were talking about, and I was too innocent to understand any of their jokes. I would always have to have a "babysitter" whenever I went out to the movies, so obviously I wouldn't be able to go with them without seeming like a stupid little third wheel kid.

She's probably found some people closer to her age and interest who give her a special amount of attention vs being treated the same as everyone else. Also, they'd be there with her when she graduates high school...you would already be finishing college.


Hmm, I had that happen to me from a girl 2 years older than me. But then again, she was a prep, had an immense amount of friends and contacts to keep her busy, and wasn't a very good friend anyway.

The idea with my little situation there wasn't that she was a prep or a bad friend. She grew up and needed friends her own age so that she wouldn't be lonely. *shrugs* I already foreseen it happen before it did, so it wasn't too much of a shock and I forgave her. Right now I'm just starting high school and she's already in an art university, I'm happy that she found friends to enjoy high school with.

Anyway, I don't think ignoring this girl would be a smart move. It would just alarm the rest of the group and would make you out to be a snob or insensitive in their eyes. Be civil to the girl and start conversations, but if she wants to get together then she should make the calls from now on.


Good point. As for me and my friend, the reason why we come to see each other so often is that we live in the same neighborhood- 2 streets from each other actually. I'm not jealous that she found friends her own age, I'm just bitter that she would forget our friendship as it was before.
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