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Drinking, when did you start? First experiences Go to post 43 Lifestyle Discussion Wed May 06, 2009 9:21 am
when i was young, real young, under 10. it was family influence and its normal where im from as long as you know your limit.

it was okay i only had one gensis and didnt even really get buzzed. Even now i dont really get past a buzz never been drunk. I dont drink alot since in this country and now that im over 18 ill probably be in jail the next day, so i dont drive if i plan on drinking.
Now if you give me the real stuff from ireland, after a couple of those im loopy. dont even have to drive anywhere i could walk home.
'Forgive and Forgetting?' Go to post 31 Lifestyle Discussion Wed May 06, 2009 9:14 am
hypocrisy is the downfall of alot of people.
sometimes though it has to do with others not wanting someone close to them make the same mistakes they had. or judge others by past mistakes they are taking into serious terms and are repenting for in their own way.

theres alot of reasons why people say one thing then turn around and do that or something close to it. Its human nature, noones perfect
Molested by guy friend while he thought I was sleeping. Go to post 61 Life Issues Wed May 06, 2009 9:08 am
Giulio Caccini
queen Aoibheal


thats the thing though kids grow up they change, sometimes certain things change no matter how long youve know someone. Even if hes joking around about it, its not fair to you or your partner. by the sound of it, hes either trying the best of both worlds being a friend, yet feeling up on his buddies partner just because he can and knows nothing will happen to him.
Or hes thinking something different from the who thing and does think its like a "secret lover" type thing in the night. which could turn out bad for you in the end if he is thinking your sending him different signals, than your intending

Im not saying he still couldnt be a good friend, its just you never really know someone unless you know whats going on in their mind. So its something you have to get out in the open and say what you need to say to put a stop to it before it gets to that level, and youll regret not stoping it earlier.


Thank you - you make some really excellent points here.

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Or hes thinking something different from the who thing and does think its like a "secret lover" type thing in the night. which could turn out bad for you in the end if he is thinking your sending him different signals, than your intending


Actually, this is what I'm thinking could be the most likely - that he thinks it's some kind of secret affair. I mean, he is just not the kind of guy (or so I thought) to so blatantly betray a friend just for the hell of it, so I'm wondering if he thinks I return the sentiments. (WHICH I DON'T AND NEVER WILL. AUGH.)



your welcome even though i dont really know you i dont want what happend to me happen to you or anyone else.

lol you just never know, so itd be best when you next see him to talk about it and see whats going on see why this is happening. dont fall for any of that stupid stuff alot of people do when they know what your talking about.
Molested by guy friend while he thought I was sleeping. Go to post 61 Life Issues Wed May 06, 2009 8:56 am
Giulio Caccini
queen Aoibheal
first you shouldnt even be inbetween a bunch of guys on the floor after a certain age that says something to alot of guys (not all) many take that as an invitation for something else, especially if they have thought about you in a different way which your friend has already done by the sound of it. and you have a boyfriend. if he doesnt get it then your boyfriend does have to intervine, if he doesnt know about it he could think that you were leading his friend on, and could turn on you from it.


We've known each other since we were kids. sad It's never, EVER been a problem before with any of them.

Also, this guy friend has been there for me and my boyfriend's entire relationship - he knows we've been together for FIVE YEARS and he knows that we love each other to death, which makes him trying this even more confusing. My boyfriend knows about the whole thing.

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It doesnt matter if he plays dumb, or whatever, you have to confront him about it now. It also doesnt matter how to talk about it, if your serious and want him to stop you just have to say it, and make your point clear.

does it matter more to keep your friend, or have a friend that will end up hurting you in the end because he got the wrong signals, and rapes you.


You're probably right. I just had no idea I was sending any signals...>=/ ******** guys and their hormones.



thats the thing though kids grow up they change, sometimes certain things change no matter how long youve know someone. Even if hes joking around about it, its not fair to you or your partner. by the sound of it, hes either trying the best of both worlds being a friend, yet feeling up on his buddies partner just because he can and knows nothing will happen to him.
Or hes thinking something different from the who thing and does think its like a "secret lover" type thing in the night. which could turn out bad for you in the end if he is thinking your sending him different signals, than your intending

Im not saying he still couldnt be a good friend, its just you never really know someone unless you know whats going on in their mind. So its something you have to get out in the open and say what you need to say to put a stop to it before it gets to that level, and youll regret not stoping it earlier.
Molested by guy friend while he thought I was sleeping. Go to post 61 Life Issues Wed May 06, 2009 8:39 am
first you shouldnt even be inbetween a bunch of guys on the floor after a certain age that says something to alot of guys (not all) many take that as an invitation for something else, especially if they have thought about you in a different way which your friend has already done by the sound of it. and you have a boyfriend. if he doesnt get it then your boyfriend does have to intervine, if he doesnt know about it he could think that you were leading his friend on, and could turn on you from it.


It doesnt matter if he plays dumb, or whatever, you have to confront him about it now. It also doesnt matter how to talk about it, if your serious and want him to stop you just have to say it, and make your point clear.
does it matter more to keep your friend, or have a friend that will end up hurting you in the end because he got the wrong signals, and rapes you.
Size, does it matter much? Go to post 25 Lifestyle Discussion Wed May 06, 2009 8:26 am
for the most part no, but if you dont know how to use it then thats a whole different matter. People who do care tend to be in open leg nation and need it to be a certain size to feel anything.

and for the most part most women can only take 6 to 7 inches before it goes past the vajaja. More experienced women can handle more. But your also still young you wont stop growning until your around twenty and it still fills out after that. so you never know you could get bigger in length and width.
Life After School/College, Is It Easier? Go to post 33 Lifestyle Discussion Wed May 06, 2009 7:31 am
most teens have it easy since their parents are main providers that spend money on them, no bills to pay, and some dont even have to get a job because of it. Many dont appercaite what they have until its taken away since others dont have that luxury and have to be the adult from the get go.


Some have a better go at it than others, and some rely on their parents their whole lifes in some ways. but ive found that it gets easier by the day since you get accustomed to it, and learn to stand on your own feet.

but parents arent always around to fix your messes, help clean, pay bills and deal with everything else that goes on. Especially if you have children and are used to your parents helping out so you can go to school, or hang out with friends. You have so much responsibilty once schools over and your on your own its tiring working all the time just to pay bills even for an apartment. Unless you have a good job that pays alot and gets good hrs.
two languges Go to post 35 Lifestyle Discussion Wed May 06, 2009 7:20 am
ive got at least five im fluent in gaelic (both), french, english, jap and latin
and two others im learning
chinese, and russian

it actually sucks sometimes since my family knows most of these, so i get cofused sometimes when they talk to me, and i still misprenounce alot.
im still getting used to it even though ive been doing it since i was little.
*~Music You're Listening to Now: What Song, Who's It By?~* Go to post 15 Music Wed May 06, 2009 7:11 am
~~happy ever after~~

~~ our first summer~~
Sex when menstruating. [GUYS, PLEASE VOTE TOO!] [NEW POLL] Go to post 316 Lifestyle Discussion Tue May 05, 2009 9:19 am
blah not really
not only do i have pms four times a years their heavy, so its quite gross and im really a pi**y person when that time comes around.
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