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i have two

my friend kelly who was previously a man is post-op transgendered and is happy with being who she really is

and my friend patric (patricia) is pre-op to become a man in a few months..


for the most part people like them tend to get closer to gay or bi and such because its easier for us to accept them than straight people are.

im not saying its going to fail or anythings is more of a warning, its happened before. but if you explain it right, they could help make this thread thrive. alot of older members are really helpful and explain alot of the finer points of the religions and such so you get a better grasp.

as most things though you will get obnoxious flamers so its best to ignore them and just continue with people who actually do have interest in or are pagan religioned.

all this i know
but tell me what happens when u two break up, and he/shes saved all the messages and pics you have sent him/her? they say that about alot of people but you cant always trust alot of the people your with.

and alot of the times its not boyfriends and girlfriends, alot of the times its people just wanting to hook up and they want to show each other what their about. so they send and recieve these messages from flings or people they have crushes on and not wanting a relationship? what do all those people end up doing with the picks and messages? they show them around to their friends....

then explain to me when someone hacks a personal comp and steals those messages and picks, or that person is bribed alot of money for a "hot mess" pic that will end up making them alot of money just handing them over? or it all gets stolen and they want to sell that merchedise off with all the stuff still on it?

and yes i know its not just pics im not stupid since all my friends come whinning to me when the guy theyve had a crush on for awhile starts sharing her messages with all his friends...and others end up a phone whore for dirty messages and pics.

im a wiccan and im way into the tradtional stuff.

and its no lie alot of pagan based religious people later will most likely come in and rip into this threat because alot of the things you have to learn is from reading. especially if you want to join into a coven which you have to be eighteen to do for the fact alot of them do the sky clad gatherings, chants and spells.

ive actually seen two or three threads like this i can bring them back up to the front if they are still in my subscriber. they actually have more info for beginners and such and older people who have more experience actually help out in them if the questions are reasonable enough.

= against= sorry id rather not

not only do people save those, they show the pics to their friends and send them around no matter what they say. so no matter what you go into later in life if someone finds your naked photos online or someones computer/phone your screwed and labeled something you not. especailly if you plan on going into something that makes you famous even for a few mintues.

with phone sex u never know who else is in the room when its going on. and whats the point of doing it over the phone? even if they live to far away u dont know if theyre cheating on you, and they have their friends back them up on the "im not cheating" so its better to have someone local and just do it. Its also true with this if someone records that stuff its black mail central.

i actually kept writing back because of my idenitiy/sexuality mishap so the other half was something i read and it set me off so im actually done with it ive stated my case.

for the most part since in christian and catholic religion its considered "heathen" for me to do penetragms and spells of old religions since i dont believe in god. So really religious people have looked down on me for it have told me i will go to hell for not following christ and being a "heathen". so in that sense its considered a bad thing.

for me i dont think it is, im quiet proud to be a heathen and do what i think it right for myself and not what others want me to do.

while thats true, you have to consider the people im seeing they hate one another to the point its getting out of hand, and into fistfights, so im most likley going to drop both of them and persue some new people.

the thing is though none of us are actually dating just seeing one another, and neither of them can stand one another.


but all im gonna say on the rest of the subject is wahh... yes we all have problems and deal with them differently for one reason or another. But some people have to take meds to fuction in a normal life system.Otherwise they couldnt have a normal life because they cannot help what their doing from any know reason, or possibly die without it which is the case for a small percentage of pill takers.
Others dont because they dont have that same issue as the other and doesnt need it since they can quickly get over it and move on without it effecting their day.

I for one have had this problem since i was around eight, and would probably be in prison for murdering someone by now, So i have to take them. Big deal they help me get through the day without problems and put the chemicals in my system back to normal so im sticking with them until im cleared not to take them anymore.

so just because someone is sick of hearing another person talking about taking something to help them out then dont listen to it or read it. this is just another thread to whine about something when they can just ignore it and move on to an interesting thread.

true, very true biggrin

but i tend not to get technical, since it just confuses people for the most part. yes it is heathen but i dont care, that why i ignore people who tend to look down on me for it though.