iliketocolor Ok so I am 18 and have never been in a relationship or anything like that. I had my first kiss this summer and that is about it.
I went to a "party" last night. It was at this really adorable guy's house and it was me him and my friend. we all got kinda drunk and high. My friend was wasted and she fell asleep early. So I was giving this guy a massage and we ended up going to his room and continued it there. Then we were just talking. He asked me about any boyfriends and what music I liked and it seemed like he was interested. Well he slept in his boxers and I slept without a shirt on...yeah. well I have no idea if this guy was really interested in me. We didn't have sex, but I gotta know what I am supposed to do now. Like we talked about sex, but we didn't do it. So any info would be helpful because like I said I have never done this before. Did I mention he is really sexy? blaugh
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.WayneZinok. You pre-planned when you're going to french your boyfriend? It's generally a better idea to just wait for the right moment, when things feel right.
Start out slow with a few regular kisses, and then use a little tongue. Don't shove your tongue down his throat, or anything like that. Just touch the tip to his, or lightly lick his lips, just entering his mouth. You can definitely build things up from there, but really experimentation is what's going to teach you. No one is born with the ability, and we all learn through trial and error. Chances are he's going to be unsure and awkward as well, so you guys can learn together.
Just take things slow and don't bite off more than you can chew. And have a good sense of humour about it, it's most likely not going to be perfect for a while now, but you'll figure it out.
Well said! :]
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Artist Underneath My moms acting the same exact way.
Honestly, The people who died mostly were dieing anyway. Most people who die "naturally" die from small diseases like colds and stuff or something to do with the heart. I don't think its as bad as people are making it.
Plus, who says those vaccines wont later cause something worse?
They seemed to have rushed it out so people could feel secure, but since we don't even know how bad this flu really is, who says the rushed out vaccine wont just cause more problems?
Well said! :]
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Ashlyn_Can_Do There is a dance coming up and my bf wants to french kiss there is just one problem i dont know how! and i dont wanna look stupid but all my buddys are trying to help me but they arent really helping! HELP ME!!!! PLZ IM SO FREAKED OUT!!! gonk gonk gonk
Well love, there is no real way to explain it to be honest. It just happens and it comes naturally D: I'm sorry, I wish I could be of more help.
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Alright, here's my story.
Just before the end of last year, I went out with a boy before I went away to NZ for a while (We both live in Scotland) We both knew that but still dated anyway. It was fun but not like love (Not like the relationship I'm in now) So, before I left, I decided to break it off. Big surprise that he thought it could still work (I mean, that would put the long in long distance relationships) Anyway, we had a messy break-up and things kinda went sour when I left.
Then about 6 months later when I'm heading on back to the UK, the guy emails me and pours his heart out to me over the net and I felt awful that I couldn't return the feelings. I had to be totally brutal because I wasn't interested in him anymore.
Now of course, our friendship is frayed and will never be the same. It doesn't help that our best mates date each other so it's impossible to just avoid one another. He's going to be godfather to their kid and I'm gonna be godmother.
So my fellow Gaia buddies, can you offer any advice for getting over this kinda stuff? We used to be uber close and now, I feel sad that we aren't exactly friends anymore. I still want to be his friend but if he still has feelings for me, I'm not sure that I can
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Whispering Campaign my mom is forcing me into it.
i honestly don't want it.
from what i understand, it's a vaccine being administered for a flu they know nothing about.
and it's a two shot vaccination.
plus the regular flu one.
and i hate needles.
i dunno.
what do i do LI?
I was offered the vaccine but turned it down. From what I can tell, it seems like every other flu. The common cold kills more people every year all over the world.
I know that there has been deaths but most of them were people with underlying medical conditions.
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toki456 Wife of a Mistress Reason why 13 year old's shouldn't be dating at such a young age. The way I see it, he was just using you.
im not 13 im 16 and i dont think you should just judge my age by my problem
I tend to agree. Age is no indication of maturity. My sister's partner is 22 and acts like he's twelve. And he's a father now.
Anyway, I'm getting off topic. This guy, ex-boyfriend of yours, sounds like a jerk doll. Anyone who treats you like that doesn't deserve you at all. Honestly, you sound like a very nice person and you could do much better :] Of course, it's going to hurt for a while and it may be some time before you manage to get over him. But time is an excellent healer.
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Fort William. West coast of Scotland! Tis a silly place really. Seriously though, my real name is Shannon (Lolz, I has my own airport and river) I'm Seventeen and I live my life through the Internet cos my town is mostly filled with Neds (Scottish version of Chavs) There are a few select people who are cool in FW though.
*Looks through Binoculars* Any other Scotties out there?
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Oh oh! The new Sonic 2D game, Dragon Age (Yay for Tim Curry and Kate Mulgrew) Halo ODST and Mini Ninjas! (Looks Lol worthy)
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