AngieTheCrazy
Very good points, I like how you explained. I was hoping though, that we could take in consideration that there are other galaxies and possibly another universe. I was talking to my boyfriend about this and he agrees on both sides he doesn't think its impossible for there to be life on other planets and can't be utterly implausible for the same conditions to have happened reverse to our own. Thats that whole universe repeats itself kind of thing. He just doesn't think they'd all be humanoid, that they would be some sort of bacteria. Which when he explained, like you made sense. I guess I was hoping that there would be a humanoid species somewhere in our universe or in another universe that wonders the same things as I do.
BUT
I forget that WE were built in specific conditions. I just don't think that its completely impossible for the conditions to repeat themselves. Earth can't be so special in that sense. Maybe it is. I find it hard to believe though.
That's just it though. If you have specific conditions then you can expect specific things to happen. We don't know much about how life began, so we can't really give a good guess as to how likely it is to begin on other planets. However we can at least guess that if there was life then there may be certain things we can expect to evolve. We know that multicellularity has evolved on separate occasions, so that means that the chances of it happening can't be that slim, so maybe life on other planets isn't going to be restricted to just being bacteria. Eyes have evolved many times in the history of life, so it seems that it's quite an important attribute to have if you're going to survive. The sense of smell has also evolved many times, albeit in different ways. So hopefully the odds of life becoming somewhat complex as it is on Earth isn't as far a stretch as we the more pessimistic predictions tell us.
Here's a quick example of two animals evolving to be similar, a
Thylacine and a
Wolf. The Thylacine is more closely related to a kangaroo than a dog, but because their lifestyles and diets were similar they evolved to have similar characteristics and body plans. So this may hold true to alien life, and perhaps a humanoid body plan (albeit probably with very different internal physiology) is likely to arise in the right conditions.
AngieTheCrazy
I'm really hoping on some level that we do figure out being buttholes to others isn't how things are done and coexist with other life forms that aren't our own. I'm basing that on science fictional thinking though. XD Hoping that maybe an alien species wouldn't think we're inferior and wipe us out "invading" our planet.
I like to think that by the time our technology is powerful enough to find other lifeforms, that our culture and society will also be more 'advanced' in its empathy towards conscious life. We're getting better, but we still have a long way to go.