Shokushu
Screaminidiot
But if there are 2 sides, you can either pick one or the other or your own, "third side."
I still don't understand what you're trying to tell me.
Put it more "flatly". Dumb it down for me.
I wasn't saying someone picks the third side.
Ok let's say you flip a coin and don't look at it. I say the coin is heads up. You know that there's no reason I'm right other than chance. THIS MEANS that you do not believe me. Saying you do not believe my claim that it is heads up does not mean that you are yourself claiming that it must be tails up. You simply LACK a reason to believe that it is heads up.
People believe lots of things, some of them for good reasons and some of them for bad reasons but any time the have anything less than belief they can say they do not believe.
Now there is actually a word for "I believe that your claim is wrong" and that is disbelief.
And one more time just to be sure: To say "I do not believe in God" is not the same thing as saying "I believe there is no God." In the first statement there is a lack of belief in the claim that there is a god. In the second claim there is disbelief in a god.
The difference is obviously rather important. Saying "you're wrong" deserves a very different response from saying "you haven't shown me that you are right."
I might have mixed this conversation up with another one though. Don't try to tie this point back to much I've said before. I'm really just going into this because of where you said "They make the choice and therefore choose their beliefs."
Looking at belief like this it is not something you choose to do. No matter the claim, either you were shown something that convinced you to believe or you have something that falls short of belief.
I get it now... but it's not a very important point to make.
People do it. People say things without knowing the way it sounds,
they don't know the inflection, the insight and purpose... so they assume they do know.
It's like if you said "Jesus isn't real" just because you didn't see him,
and another person sees him and says "He is real!"
Person A has no proof, therefore says: it's not real.
Person B has personal proof, therefore says: it is.
To say, "I don't believe in God, but I do believe in Gods." is kind of redundant though.
If you believe their are gods out there, why wouldn't "God" be existent?
If you believe there are gods, then why can't God be real as well?
It's like saying, Greek Mythology is real but Pinocchio isn't.
Pinocchio may not be a real person, but it's a real thing.
The point I'm getting to is everything is about perspective,
your own personal belief on a subject,
and people tend to say what they think others should hear,
and not the actual facts on the matter.
In my opinion, more people care about ideas and theories more than actual facts.