Extreme Urban Ninja
Tea Age Sea
Extreme Urban Ninja
Well the OP was smart enough to tell us the time we live in but I don't think that they are smart enough to comprehend the place at which we live...
I know, we can't say n****r or else the black people will beat us up.
Well you cant, aside from that, that word carries along with it a stigma of hate, and history of violence when used in the mouths of white people. I'm still trying to figure out how hip hop culture adapted the word and took of the hate along with the -er making it non hateful by condensing it and adding an -a but still, apparently things work that way. Just know that when white people use the word it serves as a constant reminder of the indignity that our ancestors faced which though none of us were there, we still feel due to racism and discrete discrimination in our own social periods which by multiplying what we are subjected to by 100 fold, we can probably get the gist of what it was like back then.
I have believed in the past that any person who used the word n****r were just ignorant, racist pigs who were less than human. This is because of that same stigma of hate that you're talking about - because I was taught to accept and love all people equally and that sort of bigotry was unacceptable. I still think that people who use n****r offensively are less than human or just stuck in an ignorant rut. Many of my friends say "n***a" to each other, even to their black friends. They don't view it as racist. At this point the word has become a victim of the internet generation, the children of which take everything and view it as apathetic and more as satire. Example : Dead Babies, Rape.
If someone is actually offended at what I say, I always apologize and explain my stance. From there they can take it or leave it. In person, I have never insulted someone with a genuine racial slur.