DestineyzChild
Hey, I am having a hard time staying a virgin. I have had so many chances to loose it but i did. If your a virgin why do you stay one an if you are not why did you loose an what might you say to a virgin friend who has a problem like mine.
I choose to keep my virginity because not only do I intend to give it to the man I love, but to the man I'll spend the rest of my life with. On our night together, I want to be able to say I've done it with no one else but him...
that, to me, would be golden. There is something so, supremely special in entirely giving yourself to only one person in your life.
Also, maintaining your virginity instead of shelving sex at a certain point in each relationship you wade through cuts down on the significant amount of regret (bitter feelings, et.c) you may have after things are trashed. Of course, not everyone feels that way.
Do what you feel is right, but if you have even a streak of doubt in your actions, don't have sex.