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Peanetty Goodness's avatar
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@Morgan: Don't get me wrong. It's a good idea if that's what you want. I just can't see spending that much money on something like that.

My children will be the world to me. But I just can't see spending $1,000 dollars on a crib that the baby is only going to use for a bit. Now I can see if it's one of the convertible cribs. I guess I feel the way I do because I came from a family that only lived on about $15,000 a year and there were four of us in the house. We never went without but we didn't have anything lavish either.
I feel bad, having a good amount of money. I hear so often about how much people are struggling.

sad Makes me feel like a bad person.
Treehuggingmama's avatar
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I spent like 5k in total between him being itty bitty and now with the toddler bed and toddler what nots.
I just don't see why you should spend that much on your kid unless their like 10 and going to keep their room like that til they leave for college.
Even then I don't think I'd spend more than 10k with electronics and what not.
It's just ridiculous.
we make about 200$ extra a month and thats about it and by extra I mean not on bills, that doesn't include grocerys
If I ever win the lottery, I'm paying back EVERYONE that ever helped me, every single person and places like Joseph's Coat that once a week lets you come in and get 1 paper grocery bag full of anything and everything they've got for absolutely free. And the teen center that holds my parenting group (that poor building is so run down!!) And the teen mom's school I graduated from. Every single person that let me stay at their place for a while, even when things didn't go so well.
-Morgan-Va-
I feel bad, having a good amount of money. I hear so often about how much people are struggling.

sad Makes me feel like a bad person.

I don't think its bad to have money unless your one of those people who go "Ug why buy a 10$ pair of jeans when you can buy a 98473768274$ from guchi(sp)"
I'm also buying a huge house to rent to people for cheap, by referral.
Tobi - It's frustrating. It's only really two of them, but one of them has been SO nasty to me it put me in tears
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Endarei
Geez, I wish I had that kind of money in a year. We're on welfare, and since Evan didn't get the papers in on time we won't get our money this month... reimbursed in december, but not until after he possibly loses his phone and we probably lose everything in both our storage spaces....
I got most of Kiernan's stuff for free. In fact, almost ALL of it.


That's terrible.
Me and Scott are in debt because I have medical bills and credit bills and he has school bills and unpaid bills he just got lazy with.

I think my debt is like 2k which isn't much but with the baby coming I'm a mess.
And Scott's debt is like 7k.

Thank god one day the house we live in will be ours.
We rent the first floor apartment in a house his mom owns.
And we she passes away (not that we wish that) the house is going to be given to us.
Thevillian
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I feel bad, having a good amount of money. I hear so often about how much people are struggling.

sad Makes me feel like a bad person.

I don't think its bad to have money unless your one of those people who go "Ug why buy a 10$ pair of jeans when you can buy a 98473768274$ from guchi(sp)"


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Well, I don't think that. But my parents always did so we're used to shopping in the same places, which is like big brands and stuff...

Now I feel snobby too. sad
Oh, i need, the darkness, the sweetness, the sadness, the weakness, i need this



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Yep
James has walked out the door

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I need, a lullaby, a kiss goodnight, angel sweet, love of my life, oh, i need this

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-Morgan-Va-
Thevillian
-Morgan-Va-
I feel bad, having a good amount of money. I hear so often about how much people are struggling.

sad Makes me feel like a bad person.

I don't think its bad to have money unless your one of those people who go "Ug why buy a 10$ pair of jeans when you can buy a 98473768274$ from guchi(sp)"


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Well, I don't think that. But my parents always did so we're used to shopping in the same places, which is like big brands and stuff...

Now I feel snobby too. sad

Hahaha don't because if you were you would have already stopped talkin to us poor folk
Tobette
Oh, i need, the darkness, the sweetness, the sadness, the weakness, i need this



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Yep
James has walked out the door

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I need, a lullaby, a kiss goodnight, angel sweet, love of my life, oh, i need this

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more baby lovin for you
Thevillian
-Morgan-Va-
Thevillian
-Morgan-Va-
I feel bad, having a good amount of money. I hear so often about how much people are struggling.

sad Makes me feel like a bad person.

I don't think its bad to have money unless your one of those people who go "Ug why buy a 10$ pair of jeans when you can buy a 98473768274$ from guchi(sp)"


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Well, I don't think that. But my parents always did so we're used to shopping in the same places, which is like big brands and stuff...

Now I feel snobby too. sad

Hahaha don't because if you were you would have already stopped talkin to us poor folk

LOL exactly!!
As long as you don't 'look down' on people with less money than you.. and realize the value of a dollar... you're not really snobby. wink
Treehuggingmama's avatar
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@Tobe: You don't need him any ways.
There is someone better out there for you.

@Morgan: Yea my parents were like that too.
I like nicer flashy things, but that doesn't stop me from shopping at Target.

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