SuperMoms! <Parenting Support> New competition!

Spank your kids?

Yes	22.4%	[ 829 ]
Occasionally	16.9%	[ 626 ]
Rarely	18.3%	[ 678 ]
No	42.3%	[ 1566 ]
Total Votes:			[ 3699 ]

[KaiaUchiha]

SpiderMum

Dani was an accident. I think there is a big difference between calling your child an accident than a mistake. I'm not saying I regret having her, I just didn't intend to get pregnant then. I'd been married for 2 years at the time...we were just going to wait another year or two before having a kid.

I agree. My little boy was an accident. I was 19 when I had him and had a few friends. After I told them I was pregnant, they all stopped hanging out with me. Most of my "friends" are on Gaia. It made me feel bad because I didn't know why they pushed me away. My little boy did nothing wrong.

[Effykins]

ItsMeggySuePshyah

So my boyfriend (also first boyfriend) wasn't exactly a "gentlmen" before him and I got together. He was pretty much a lovely little manhoe. So when I got pregnant, I was also called every nasty word people could possibly think of. Even though I was a virgin before the "oopsies". The best part was that the girls who called me names where only between 14-16 and where already running aorund doing drugs, drinking and having more sex than I ever had. Yet I'm a hoe because I had sex with the person I loved, and have been with them for two years. Beautiful is it not?

People are morons.

[/my general philosophy]

[volley15]

Gabriel has been so sleepy lately. Napping every couple of hours for a couple of hours. He's not sick or anything. Probably just a growth spurt. Right? I know I always got sleepy when I was younger while going through a growth spurt.

[ItsMeggySuePshyah]

Wow, good for her. ^.^

But I am happy now that I have "tamed the beast" so to speak. My boyfriend said that I am the only one he wants to be with and he is done with making a fool of himself and not going anywheres in life, blablabla. His speech was beautiful, made me cry, but was terribly long. Or else I would go on quoting it all night. whee

Funny thing he is determined to marry me before I turn 20. But I am not sure if I'm ready yet. It's sweet offer though.

[Dr Thirteen Hadley]

I don't have any of my old friends as friends anymore. They all pushed me away. And now they're all having babies, and they're all close friends. It pisses me off.

[KaiaUchiha]

volley15

Gabriel has been so sleepy lately. Napping every couple of hours for a couple of hours. He's not sick or anything. Probably just a growth spurt. Right? I know I always got sleepy when I was younger while going through a growth spurt.

Is he eating a lot as well? It does sound like a growth spurt. My son's going through it as well.

[SpiderMum]

All my old friends from when I was a kid/teen are still cool with me. They love Dani to bits...it's the friends I made right before I got pregnant that ended up being so sucky about it. rolleyes Although I don't have a ton in common with my old friends because I'm the only one who has a kid so far, but now I have mommy friends that I see a lot. When we move I'll be 10 minute away from my bestie who has a daughter Dani's age. It's going to rock! Now we live 45 minutes apart. burning_eyes

[volley15]

LukesMilkBitch

I don't have any of my old friends as friends anymore. They all pushed me away. And now they're all having babies, and they're all close friends. It pisses me off.

I still have a few of my friends from High school. About 7 or 8 of them. The rest I haven't seen since graduation.

[volley15]

KaiaUchiha

volley15

Gabriel has been so sleepy lately. Napping every couple of hours for a couple of hours. He's not sick or anything. Probably just a growth spurt. Right? I know I always got sleepy when I was younger while going through a growth spurt.

Is he eating a lot as well? It does sound like a growth spurt. My son's going through it as well.

Not more than usual. He tends to eat about 10-12 ounces worth of food at every meal. Every meal is about 4.5-5 hours apart during the day.

He does want to walk around a lot, so that could also just be tiring him out some too.

[Akatsuki_692]

hey everyone! Haven't been on in a while!! Hows things going here?
Yay for me and my family we ALL have swine, not that it's crazy horrible but it sucks.

[Effykins]

KaiaUchiha

December 28th. ^_^ It's been a hard 4 years, but we are getting there.

Awwwww!!!

That's so exciting.

^-^

[ItsMeggySuePshyah]

Yeah Ive gone to having pratically the whole senior class as freinds (I went to a small school) to having only one still with me. And she's my best freind. Ive known her since the ninth grade and she adores Jackson. She likes to consider herself an aunt. Although it's wierd when I run into my old freinds. They talk about thier adventures at parties and college. I talk about what kind of formula Jackson is on and how many times he pooped in one day...

[Dr Thirteen Hadley]

Akatsuki_692

hey everyone! Haven't been on in a while!! Hows things going here?
Yay for me and my family we ALL have swine, not that it's crazy horrible but it sucks.

My brother in law tried telling me that everyone who gets swine dies in less then a day. What a loser talk2hand

[ItsMeggySuePshyah]

My aunt, her friends, and a couple of my cousins had swine flu. One of them felt so dizzy, they fainted in the bathroom. >.< But they all got over it though. As for me. I felt sick to my stomach for a week (never vomitted though *phew*), had hot and cold flashes, a tiny fever, and my whole body felt like a ton. >.<

Note: I am still trying to master the art of holding a 5 month old squirmy/curious baby while typing. So sorry for any bad grammar/ use of language. xp

[LenaFoxx]

x_RenaStar_x

~ BEWARE RANT AHEAD ~
Ok so im getting SO sick of one my besties. Im considering not being friends with her anymore. She just has NO CLUE WHATSOEVER.
Her partner has nits. She didn't even think her kids would get them cos they live in the same house.
She then takes her kids to playgroup and is like oh Tom cut off his dreads cos he had nits. Me and my other Mate Nikki look through her kids hair, they BOTH have nits. We both leave, because it was highly inconsiderate of her to bring them when they have been exposed to nits and expose a whole lot of other kids to them. Babies too.
Two days later. My kids are covered in eggs. And only one bug found so far.
And this isn't the first time she's passed on stuff from her kids due to not thinking. She passed on conjunctivitis to a whole bunch of kids and babies because she said it was "allergies" scream scream scream scream
Im lucky my hair has been dyed so often and because of my meds i have a bad scalp.
My poor babies have been through hell with treatments today crying And Adara has curly hair crying

Sorry for the long post sweatdrop

My mom has a friend like that.
She asked me to babysit her little girl so that she wouldn't be lonely (this was like six or seven years ago) and her daughter was scratching her head like mad at my place. We called her mom and she's like "Oh she has a rash on her scalp" and then my mom checked her and she had nits. It was gross. We had to treat the little girl and my sisters and our pets. My mom and I dye our hair and my mom had chemo at the time so nothing was getting on her and my sister moo was pissed becasue she had never had to dye her hair and she had to for the nits cause the stuff my mom was using on the kids gave her asthma.
I agree with you. You don't need that kind of irresponsiblity near your kids.