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Do you hold grudges? What exactly is that doing for you?
Are you a forgiving person? When is enough, enough?
I'm a little in between, but I really don't like to be fighting. I try to end everything nicely, even if I wasn't the one to do something wrong. biggrin
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I forgive, but I rarely forget.
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I tend to hold grudges. Though I wish I didn't, because all it does is hurt me.
I'm pretty forgiving a lot of the time.
However, if someone's really wronged me or the people I care about then I'll never forgive them and will bide my time till they get their comeuppance.
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Man its all chill with me. If someone messes with my crew, or talks s**t, then we f them up, and its done. My family or my honor is different. Some loner once told me my mom was fat and was a gold digger cus she was asian, (hawaiian) Me and my best man picked him up and threw him in the thorn bushes out side.
But, when some s**t goes down that isn't big, and just happens all the time, we get pissed, we walk away, and next day, Hey man how you been?
So its all good with me
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I'm pretty forgiving a lot of the time.
However, if someone's really wronged me or the people I care about then I'll never forgive them and will bide my time till they get their comeuppance.


What if them hurting you was unintentional?
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I don't forgive easily.
I don't hold grudges for a long time, but that doesn't mean I've forgiven the person.
Sophisticated Simplicity
I forgive, but I rarely forget.
I forgive people who deserve to be forgiven.

What's the point of accepting an apology from someone who will keep making the same mistakes?

So no, I do not hold grudges. I'm just smart enough to know who not to trust.
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Depends on how grievous the fault.

I always try to forgive what I can, but I never forget. To forget would be foolish, and leave me open for betrayal of the exact same type again.
I always forgive others. I dont hold grudges, I will forget the little mistakes and move on. But the bigger intend to do me harm ones, I will be on gaurd the next time I'm around them.

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