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crimson bloodlion
If you know that having the thing is going to kill YOU would you abort?((no i wouldnt id let it kill me ))
Or if having the kid puts you and your family on the streets? (Especially when kids already born are involved. It would be pretty selfish to not consider their well being just to have another and not be able to care for them all.)we'll pull though even if it s puttin on on the streets
How about in cases of rape?if i was the raper id take care of the baby
Or if you are Tokophobic(fear of pregnancy and childbirth)? People who are tokophobic rather commit suicide than be pregnant. fear is fear get over the fear
What if they are mentally unstable? Or finacally unstable (the prenatal and birthing process costs between $6,000 and $10,000)?ever though about talking to people about halping you like there is plenty of child funds for free you konw
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Dude! Learn to organize your post!

1. Okay so then you get killed the the child has one less of a parent figurer. Great.
2. So your saying you'd have the kid even if it meant putting it on the streets? Sick.
3.If you were the raper? What the heck dude. How many rapist go and do "Oh I'm gunna rape you now but if you get pregnant I'll take care of the kid." ... talk2hand
4. Many people can't get over that fear. easier said then done.
5. Not all people cant get help.

1.id die for my child any day thank you
2.id do what it takes for my child also
3.ignore that one
4.its possible
5.and if they can afford abortion they can afford taking care of a baby if my frned needed money for that which actually he does id give him all if it
jaydee29
Pro-choice, but i believe there should be certain protocols before getting an abortion like: if you were raped then you have all the right to an abortion because it wasn't your choice to get pregnant but if the individual gets pregnant due to the lack of common sense and not using protection that is all on them.

So babies are punishment for women who have volentary sex.
That's pretty twisted.
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Experimental Fudge
crimson bloodlion
If you know that having the thing is going to kill YOU would you abort?((no i wouldnt id let it kill me ))
Or if having the kid puts you and your family on the streets? (Especially when kids already born are involved. It would be pretty selfish to not consider their well being just to have another and not be able to care for them all.)we'll pull though even if it s puttin on on the streets
How about in cases of rape?if i was the raper id take care of the baby
Or if you are Tokophobic(fear of pregnancy and childbirth)? People who are tokophobic rather commit suicide than be pregnant. fear is fear get over the fear
What if they are mentally unstable? Or finacally unstable (the prenatal and birthing process costs between $6,000 and $10,000)?ever though about talking to people about halping you like there is plenty of child funds for free you konw
o_o;
Dude! Learn to organize your post!

1. Okay so then you get killed the the child has one less of a parent figurer. Great.
2. So your saying you'd have the kid even if it meant putting it on the streets? Sick.
3.If you were the raper? What the heck dude. How many rapist go and do "Oh I'm gunna rape you now but if you get pregnant I'll take care of the kid." ... talk2hand
4. Many people can't get over that fear. easier said then done.
5. Not all people cant get help.
Thank-you for helping be desipher that post. I got a head ache looking at it.

To the Getting help thing. Many families can't get help. To get help from the government your family has to make under a certian amount yearly which many do, disqualifying them from government help. Second, not all families can give that much to help you. Esecially with this economy. It would be hurting them too.

Allowing yourself and other kids of yours live on the streets?! No food?! Barely any diapers/formula?! No home?! No nothing?! That's beyond abuse and beyond Child Neglect.

Fear is a major thing. If you are afriand of heights are you willingly going to go sky diving, or let anyone force you to the edge of a cliff? No. That's inhumane.

To the rape thing. Do you even relize how rape works? It's a one time thing done by force, and contact with the victim is never kept.
crimson bloodlion
if they can afford abortion they can afford taking care of a baby if my frned needed money for that which actually he does id give him all if it


Abortion costs a LOT less than raising a kid. You have no idea all the funds your parents have likely had to put into raising you dude.
X-tan
Lisa Knight, I actually hope you're lying about having been raped, as much as that would be a low and terrible thing to lie about, since rape is horrific, even without unwanted pregnancy. I hope that, if you are telling the truth, that whatever legal procedings are underway go well, and that you continue seeing a therapist, if not the one who spoke with you when you delivered your child (whenever that was, since you haven't said when, I'm assuming it was recently.)

However, please remember that it was your choice to carry to term, and then to keep your little boy/girl. Saying all women must go through what you went through is just as much violating their freedom as it would be if your mother had successfully forced you to abort.


i am being honest i never would lie about something this horrific or any thing for that matter.

I am seeing a therapist for this and the guy that did rape me is behind bars for 10-11 years he had several other charges on top of what he did to me sad

i am proud to have my little girl she is the best thing that happend in my life.

i will remember that.
crimson bloodlion
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crimson bloodlion
If you know that having the thing is going to kill YOU would you abort?((no i wouldnt id let it kill me ))
Or if having the kid puts you and your family on the streets? (Especially when kids already born are involved. It would be pretty selfish to not consider their well being just to have another and not be able to care for them all.)we'll pull though even if it s puttin on on the streets
How about in cases of rape?if i was the raper id take care of the baby
Or if you are Tokophobic(fear of pregnancy and childbirth)? People who are tokophobic rather commit suicide than be pregnant. fear is fear get over the fear
What if they are mentally unstable? Or finacally unstable (the prenatal and birthing process costs between $6,000 and $10,000)?ever though about talking to people about halping you like there is plenty of child funds for free you konw
o_o;
Dude! Learn to organize your post!

1. Okay so then you get killed the the child has one less of a parent figurer. Great.
2. So your saying you'd have the kid even if it meant putting it on the streets? Sick.
3.If you were the raper? What the heck dude. How many rapist go and do "Oh I'm gunna rape you now but if you get pregnant I'll take care of the kid." ... talk2hand
4. Many people can't get over that fear. easier said then done.
5. Not all people cant get help.

1.id die for my child any day thank you
2.id do what it takes for my child also
3.ignore that one
4.its possible
5.and if they can afford abortion they can afford taking care of a baby if my frned needed money for that which actually he does id give him all if it
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Which costs more: Raising a child for 18 years, or an abortion?
Are you seriously that dense that you cannot see the difference?
Since sex is ONLY for procreating, as is what im getting from your posts, you aren't allowed to have sex for pleasure either.

crimson bloodlion
SummonMoreZiggurats
crimson bloodlion
please excuse all my oul lnaguage i alologize all im trying ot say is abortion is wrong if you didnt have sex in the first place it wouldnt happen and its a being whether you like it or not there im done


Here boy! You want a treat?! You wanna go outside?! mrgreen

grabs treat ''thank you kind sir ''
All I can do it sit and stare at you two wile trying not to laugh. X3

Hey, what do you think about someone who can't mentally handle carrering(I think I spelled that wrong) and giving birth to the child? What do you do then?

Say there is a girl who get pregnant even after her boyfriend got snipped and they still used birth control (It has happened). She's be pretty devastated right? Now add on mental problems. She is the type who would take a knife to her womb to get it out or even try and harm the child after it born when the nurse go to hand it to her. What do we do about her? Make her go though term where at any point she might kill herself? I don't think so.
In my opinion I think that it is the mothers choice to decide wether she should keep her child or not. Still everyone has their right to state their opinions.

Lisa Knight, is allowed to post what she believes in and so are you.

I am not going to take sides because this subject has just caused chaos. Everyone can say their assumptions.
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SummonMoreZiggurats
crimson bloodlion
if they can afford abortion they can afford taking care of a baby if my frned needed money for that which actually he does id give him all if it


Abortion costs a LOT less than raising a kid. You have no idea all the funds your parents have likely had to put into raising you dude.
Hundreds of thousands of dollars over 18 years. If not over a million in 18 years.
i believe not to have sex til im married
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crimson bloodlion
i believe not to have sex til im married
And that is relavient to the topic how, exactly?
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But you are making it sound like sex is only for procreating.
So, therefore, sex for pleasure is not allowed.

Lisa Knight: What's your daughters name then?

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jaydee29
Pro-choice, but i believe there should be certain protocols before getting an abortion like: if you were raped then you have all the right to an abortion because it wasn't your choice to get pregnant but if the individual gets pregnant due to the lack of common sense and not using protection that is all on them.

So babies are punishment for women who have volentary sex.
That's pretty twisted.


If you don't use protection then hey i guess.
Lisa knight
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Lisa Knight, I actually hope you're lying about having been raped, as much as that would be a low and terrible thing to lie about, since rape is horrific, even without unwanted pregnancy. I hope that, if you are telling the truth, that whatever legal procedings are underway go well, and that you continue seeing a therapist, if not the one who spoke with you when you delivered your child (whenever that was, since you haven't said when, I'm assuming it was recently.)

However, please remember that it was your choice to carry to term, and then to keep your little boy/girl. Saying all women must go through what you went through is just as much violating their freedom as it would be if your mother had successfully forced you to abort.


i am being honest i never would lie about something this horrific or any thing for that matter.

I am seeing a therapist for this and the guy that did rape me is behind bars for 10-11 years he had several other charges on top of what he did to me sad

i am proud to have my little girl she is the best thing that happend in my life.

i will remember that.


Then tell me why your profile was made private after you were called out about the thing on loving your family in it. I'd really love an explanation of that. The sheer defensiveness and evasiveness that you're showing is the liar's trademark. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I doubt I am.
Dark_-_Rose
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Lisa knight
Screaming Wombat
I'm pro-rationality.

By that, I mean a woman has every right to have an abortion if she's gone through some tough times.
But hell, there are some folks, they seem to change their mind at the WORST possible time, as in the last minute. Then there are people who seem to think that the emotions evoked by abortion are kinda funny. I don't believe abortion is murder, but it's pretty damn close, close enough that it should be reasonably expected to see some peopled get riled up about it. So yeah, even if you are pro-choice, don't kick your neighbor's dog.


yes i agree with this but they should have a sit down with the mothers and explain all possible options and explain what lethal and non lethal ways they can do for the mother. their are places that can put their child up for adoption if they dont want them.

i was raped but my mother on the other hand wanted me to abort the child and i didnt want to and she and my father tried to force me to have an abortion cuz they thought a 13 year old girl couldnt handle raising a child and bring them into this world.guess who was the one that had the last laugh? if you guessed me you be 100% correct my father and mother both hate me so i told them that they dont have the right to see me or my child.i moved all my stuff out of that house and moved in with my closest friends that wer a few blocks away from where my
a--hole parent's tossed me out basicly. im happy with my little girl and that brought joy into my life and im glad.

So, at 13 how exactly are you affording to live with friends and raise a child?


It's actually illegal to have sex at the age of 13.


i didnt have sex with any one i was RAPED theirs a difference between the two learn them.

my friends parents are helping me take care of my daughter and are helping me with medical bills clothing food.I love my daughter greatly it was my choice to bring her into this world my actions that saved her from a horrific way to go that my parents wanted and i didnt want to, this was my choice to raise her and i am gladly doing so because i love her i care greatly about my daughter.

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