My hair is most of those things too. If you look up "Protective styles for natural hair" or "protective styles updos" there's lots of cute ideas, some are buns but you get a lot of other ideas to. naturallycurly.com, On youtube the people with long hair I like to look at are naptural85, Chime Edwards, Taren Guy, LHDC, and Kimmaytube. If you're hair is looser texture than an afro, WaterLilly716 has curly non-fro texture. Even if someone's hair isn't the same as yours you can adapt the style to your own length and texture. The options are endless, undoes, braids, twists, historic hairdos, non-standard buns.