What I think you SHOULD do is mix a sort of punk look with more classy, wearable things. I know you said you like bell sleeves and cloaks, but those aren't the most everyday looks to incorporate into your outfit. Also, not to be mean, but they'll make you look a bit like you're trying too hard. sweatdrop And the baggy Tripp pants aren't exactly the most feminine thing to wear.
So my suggestion is, start wearing one or two really unique pieces with basic things like jeans, pencil skirts (which I think would look GREAT on you), cute flats, leggings, etc etc. Like a long, Vivienne Westwood-ish chain necklace with something everday like a long top and leggings, or a studded belt and wrist cuff with a cute t-shirt, jeans, and heels (flats if you want more casual).