Okay, I've been following this thread, I read from post one forward, so I know that some things I saw will be repeated, but I doubt most people have read every post, and some points do need to be reiterated, or explained better at least.
I want to start with all the people who say you can find worse on the GD. That's what the report button is for. I use the report button for inappropriate posts. Often. Mods are in place to filter such things and remove offensive posts. Just because they miss some does not mean that they approve of them.
HOWEVER, that being said, the placing of this song by the admins makes the case that they DO approve and that the omissions in removals are intentional. I really do not want to believe that of Gaia.
I know there is worse out there, but I for one take pains to avoid the worse. I choose to listen to radio stations that do not play inappropriate music, and if a song that is bad does slip in, I turn it off. I stop watching shows when they cross certain lines. I was a huge Buffy The Vampire slayer fan when it first started. When the show became how much skin can we show, I stopped watching. I make sacrifices to not hear things like this. I am not saying they should not exist, but when some one comes to Gaia because the TOS says 13 friendly, that person can expect a safe haven from explicit and offensive lyrics such as are found in hypnotized.
It simply does not belong on Gaia.
It's not a matter of if you can turn it off. I'll repeat my earlier statement. Just because it's okay for a 20 year old gaian, or even if it were okay for a 15 year old gaian, what happens when their 10 year old brother enters the room?
The comment about lying about the ages, that some one made a while back, is a great one. We can enforce inappropriateness in the forums and arenas with reporting, but we really can't enforce that no one under the age of 13 is on Gaia. We do have to accept that of we have not found a way to ensure that there are no children on the site that we do have a responsibility to anyone who is on Gaia, weather thirteen or not. If some one comes into a country illegally and is murdered there, does the murder mean any less because he wasn't where he was supposed to be? If some one does something small wrong, signing onto a pg13 site when they are 12, does that mean they should be treated like they're 20?
We don't have people checking who comes and goes.
And regaurdless, the song is inappropriate for 13. It should not be on Gaia.
When I was in JHS and HS, a lot of my friends were watching shows my parents had forbidden me to watch. Because they were forbidden I wanted to see them so badly. I've seen them now. I agree with my parents, and would rather turn off the TV then let them play, and will leave the room if some one else is watching them. If we put a warning label on it, how many people who shouldn't be watching it will, just because it's forbidden.
Some people made great points about "just because everyone else is doing it." I agree. Why should we be in a cultural race to be the lowest common denominator? Why should we be satisfied with "theres worse out there"? instead of trying to be "not so bad," why can't we strive to be better?
You can have fun at a clean event with songs that are non offensive. We can rise above the mire and sludge of what has become accepted and we can become better. I'm not saying everything in our lives should be pure and perfect, and I'm not claiming to be pure and perfect. But I choose to not accept something as good because other people have. I would like to think I am not alone in this.
This is not the first time Gaia has forgotten it's own TOS when it comes to outside source media. I was warned by friends and family alike not to listen to the Cory Brothers video. I put the computer on mute and put the screen up in the back. One of the new video trailers I was also told not to watch. I am over the age of 13. Well over. But I am still allowed to be offended by these things. I came to Gaia because I thought it was a safe haven from these things. It's gotten to the point where for a while I retreated into my guilds only, and then avoided some of those guilds as well. So I am cut off from most of what brought me to gaia in the first place, the chance to make new friends and play in wide open rps with verities of people. I have been venturing back onto Gaia proper more and more these past few weeks, and riding the report button, but things like this, being put out by the admins makes me sick. I am seriously beginning to rethink some of my Gaia choices.
There may be worse out there, but I choose to live above. I thought Gaia did too. heart