flautist
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- Posted: Thu, 23 Dec 2004 02:00:12 +0000
Prettz3003
flautist
Prettz, first of all, if you have never been there, then shut the ******** up. You have no clue what you are talking about. You have no idea the hell in which abused people live. Yes, I am talking about men and women. I know. You know why we don't leave? It's because of jackasses like you. No one believes us. The abuser will lie, make up any ******** story they can to explain away the scars. Not to mention that it's all a game of power. If an abused person leaves, the abuser will follow them. They are sick ******** who get off on having control, having power. Leaving breaks that power, and the abuser will try to get it back. Not to mention that they know they are doing wrong, and don't want the abused to tell anyone.
To make a long reply short, Prettz, I have 4 letters for you: STFU!
To make a long reply short, Prettz, I have 4 letters for you: STFU!
And people say I flame people. Sheesh.
Sure, WOMEN can always plead Battered Women Syndrome, but can a guy plead Battered Man Syndrome? If you want some special loophole for battered people, don't discriminate based on SEX. Men are abused too. This is what I was talking about. Plus, juries now a days are more likely to believe the womens side of the story. Now, I don't have a source, but if a women is beaten/raped, she has more than 80% chance that her rapist will be convicted. Would that happen for a guy? How many guy rape cases get publicity like Kobe's case girl rape case get? ZERO.
If you read my post, I said INCLUDING MEN. I know men get abused. And, yes, if they report it, there's an 80% chance of conviction, but what about the punishment the abuser gets? I know of a case of a serial rapist who was a therapist, raped 7 women repeatedly, gang raped them with his friends, stalked them, and only got 4 years. His friends were not convicted. As he was lead off, he looked at his victims and said "See you in 4 years." This thing happens over and over, that's why no one reports it, that's why victims are driven to murder. The problem lies in our "justice" system.
Yes, the statistics are that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men are victims of sexual assault. Only 2% of reported cases are false accusations. And you just said only 80% get convicted. so, 18% of rapists who have been reported are walking free at this very moment. That's not even considering the countless others who aren't even reported because of fear, shame, or guilt. This is why I think that it's a viable defense. And, yes, it's viable for men, too.