Obscurus
I thought of a question for you guys. I apologize in advance if this has been addressed already.
I know that in order to be a "real Wiccan" you have to be initiated into a coven, and have to be an adult and all that. My question is: What about children born into a Wiccan family? That is, children born to Wicca initiates. Do they teach these children in the ways of Wicca, or are the children just sort of ignored spiritually until they're old enough to make a decision if they want to join that religion?
I'm sure it probably depends on specific families, but the thought just struck me last night and it seemed like it would be something interesting to bring up.
The way I understand it (and I'm not sure if it's part of the actual tradition or not, not being Wiccan, but I know of Gardnerian and Alexandrian covens that do it), some covens will perform a "Wiccaning" ceremony (a pun on "Christening"
wink on a baby born to Wiccan parents. It's not the same as a Christian baptism, however, in that it's nonbinding. The ceremony is roughly along the lines of "Lord and Lady, bless and protect this babe until (s)he is old enough to make his/her own decisions." If I had children, I'd ask my gods to protect them and I would certainly teach them about my religion, but I'd also teach them about others. It's important to me that my children choose a path that's right for them.