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Mitsuki Horenake
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I know I am walking into a landmine situation but all I can say is this...
There are certain types of businesses where I can see Christians feeling the need to refuse specific services based on their beliefs. Anything that could indicate support of the homosexual lifestyle would be something that Christians are NOT supposed to do. Such as, true Christian clergy performing marriage ceremonies. Wedding planners, wedding cake bakers and even anything involving bringing a baby into a homosexual relationship. Some people are going to scream discrimination but...when it comes to the Faith, it's important to have lines drawn.
Some people would say, "Then don't get into those businesses." That's not fair. The reality is that this open arms acceptance of homosexuality hasn't been around since Sodom and Gomorrah.
I see nothing wrong with saying, "I'm sorry. It goes against my religion to assist you with this matter. However, here is a list of businesses/people who will be glad to assist you." Technically speaking, as Christians we aren't supposed to help a sinner carry on in their sin, but we ARE supposed to comply with mans laws. Refusing service but giving a referral I think solves both problems.
I was about to complain about what you just said, but that final statement saying that they should at the very least redirect them to people who will help makes me understand what you're saying. The only issue here is that Christianity in itself is rather contradictive. They say to "love thy neighbor" without the clause of "unless they're gay".
People nowadays do not mind the way you practice your religion AS LONG AS THEY DO NOT AFFECT OTHER PEOPLE. I'll stress that again. The minute something from your religion impedes on another person's living, then it's suddenly a problem.
It's kind of like how we don't really complain about the Jews eating Kosher.
Let me put this in terms that make the "Love They Neighbor" easier to understand in the way you are interpreting it.
If your child did something you believe to be wrong, would you not discipline them? Does this mean you don't love them? If your friend says something or does something you disagree with, does this mean you no longer love them?
Loving someone does not mean agreeing with or supporting everything they do. I have friends that I love who are gay. I have friends that I love who have sex outside of marriage. My two daughters BOTH live with their boyfriends, I still love them. I just do not support what they do. They know it. If, as Christians, we do not speak up against homosexuality, then we are not doing our job. This does NOT in any way excuse bullying or violence towards homosexuals. Love sometimes means speaking the hard truth.
...no, that still fits with what I'm saying. If my child ended up being heavily Conservative, I'd still love them. However, their Conservative lifestyle is neither enforced on me nor is it shoved on me. If I had friends who smoked, I would still love them, as long as they don't try and push me to smoke as well. As long as they don't enforce anything on me, I will still accept it.
Though I get what you're saying...somewhat. I just find it weird that you can be loving and supporting someone despite them having a thing that's basically hereditary. Yes, I do believe that homosexuality is a genetic DNA code in the same way that heterosexuality is. I don't really get how someone would not support something that is basically what you're born with. It's like saying that I totally think my best friend is completely awesome despite the fact that, I dunno, he's black or something.