Henry Hobo-Master
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- Posted: Sun, 30 Sep 2012 21:07:52 +0000
Riahlize
Which by your logic means porn devalues porn, not porn devalues sex. If the object that is more accessible is less valuable, then it doesn't necessarily drag related items with it, and you're initial argument seemed to be aimed at the initial object, which is porn.
Porn is a substitution of sex. Its related to each other, whether or not you like to believe it. If a male masturbates, will he want to have sex right afterwards? They are directly related in some cases, and indirectly in others. It does drag related items with it, because PORN DOES AFFECT SEX. As we continue to your other quotes, you even mention that it can be even considered the "clearest and most direct demonstration of sex".
Porn cheapens how obtainable sex and sex substitutes are.
Riahlize
Of course. But this is like insulting one teaching method in favor of another simply because not everyone learns or wants to learn from the method you insulted. But the same is true of the method you favor.
Yes, I do insult this teaching method, because its not preferrable for one to learn these things because of the risks involved. Porn after all, can be damaging. Some do see this as harmful. And if it is harmful, is it even an acceptable way to teach? Is it worth risking when there are other resources out there?
People don't use porn to learn, they use porn to arouse urges. And when they do learn things, they only learn them out of sheer convenience. its not knowledge that an individual can really depend upon. After all, it does come from porn, and a lot of it is very unrealistic to what sex is.
So you mean to tell me that it clearly demonstrates what sex is? But what is sex truly? I guess technically it is sex, but its garbage.
Riahlize
Now you lost me. There are a number of different porn videos which directly teach how to please your partner, how to try different techniques, how to explore and so on. As for the rest of porn, it can be easily argued as the clearest and most direct demonstration of sex.
Except that Porn is different than sex. The women are described in porn are typically not even close to being a "real woman". Porn affects males in ways I don't think you understand. They only see half the picture of sex. The source tells a little more. Porn cannot be "clear and demonstrative" if its biased towards what males typically "want to see". That is not clear, and it cannot demonstrate sex truthfully.
Riahlize
And that means you also invalidate your initial argument. If you question who is to say it's a value, you should also question who is to say it us a devalue.
That's cool. Its about perspective.