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yeru_yowamaru_1769
it all comes down to this: a person has possesion of their life, right? you own your life because you live that life. taking a life- any life at all- should require the consent of the possesor of the life.


Are you a fruititarian? Otherwise, you are taking many lives without their consent. And this is not even broaching the microorganisms.

Also:

It comes down to this: A person has possession of themselves, right? You own your body because you live in that body. Taking away one's sole ownership of themselves should require consent of the possessor of the body.

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this is beacause the person or w/e won't want to die if it still wants to live (obviously)...so if you can't ask the baby if it wants to live or not, what makes you think you can take it's life into your control and answer for the baby by getting an abortion?


1 - Prove a fetus can want anything, especially in first trimester.
2 - What makes you think you can take away my ownership of my body and answer for me (who can express my views) by forcing me to remain pregnant?

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since babies lack the physical and mental abilities to express or comprehend the concept of "living" the least you can do is let the baby live, and if you don't want the baby, you can always put it up for adoption...but that never excuses reckless sex people...


Adoption solves unwanted parenting. Your entire post ignored the woman's position of unwanted pregnancies and her right to bodily domain. In no other instance is a person forced to sacrifice their body so as to maintain another's life. Why is this an exception?
 
     
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yeru_yowamaru_1769
so if you can't ask the baby if it wants to live or not, what makes you think you can take it's life into your control and answer for the baby by getting an abortion?
The fetus didn't ask the woman if it could live in her body. What gives it the right to stay there without her permission?

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since babies lack the physical and mental abilities to express or comprehend the concept of "living" the least you can do is let the baby live,
Many people don't think that animals lack the physical and mental abilities to express or comprehend the concept of "living," yet eating meat is widely viewed as OK. Plants, fungus and bacteria (almost incontrovertibly) lack this ability also.

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and if you don't want the baby, you can always put it up for adoption...
I'm against putting children up for adoption. I view it as throwing them away, into a racist, ageist system that doesn't have the best interests of the child in mind. That would not be an option for me,

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but that never excuses reckless sex people...
Over half of the abortions performed are done so on married women. Over half of the abortions performed are done son on women who used protection. Who the ******** are you to decide what is reckless sex? And who are you to forbid it? People have free will and the ability to chose. Accept it and move on.
     
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YES, yes its ok.
If the parent to be is not ready then the child is better off not being born then born into a potentially dangerous environment.
And what about rape cases?
Or pure defects?
Some say its murder, But then that child would have to be alive, meaning having use of its senses, witch in the whom a baby does not.
That child doesn't breath, smell, taste, see, it barely can move. Not to mention almost all abortions have to happen before the 1st trimester is up, meaning that that child looks more like a worm and has yet developed a small amount of tissue as a body.
So really is it murder? or saving another child from a potentially life risking situation?
Think about it.
what if the kid you were going to have had a run out father and you were 16? Or if that kid was a rape case prolonged? Or if that child would be born into an unstable environment? Is it ok then??
I say let it be. Its up to the mother and the father just as it should be. Let them decide whats right.
 
     


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yeru_yowamaru_1769
it all comes down to this: a person has possesion of their life, right? you own your life because you live that life.


I am inclined to agree with that, though I doubt we agree for the same reasons.

I maintain that a person's most basic rights stem from an all-encompassing right to personal, bodily integrity/autonomy/domain.

And, for this reason, I believe that a woman is well within her rights to utilize lethal force as a means of preserving that integrity/autonomy/domain.

yeru_yowamaru_1769

taking a life- any life at all- should require the consent of the possesor of the life.


Am I to presume, then, that you would not support the application of lethal force even under circumstances that might require it as a means of self-preservation?

yeru_yowamaru_1769

since babies lack the physical and mental abilities to express or comprehend the concept of "living" the least you can do is let the baby live, and if you don't want the baby, you can always put it up for adoption...


The adoption option is a feasible alternative for those women who have already given birth; however, for those who haven't and wish to terminate a pregnancy, adoption simply won't work.

yeru_yowamaru_1769

but that never excuses reckless sex people...


"A consent to sexual intercourse does not imply that a consent to pregnancy, or the continuation of said pregnancy, was given."
     

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Asexual-Slut~Enya
And I am to presume that heaven is worse than a life here on Earth? I had always been taught that heaven was a paradise of sorts.


It is & because my ex had a miscarage I believe that I have a guaranteed child in heaven. All I am saying is that God is the only one who has the authority to kill & if we abort then we are worshipping a demon called molech & in the process trying to "steal" God's authority.

Asexual-Slut~Enya
And this presumes that an abortion is a means of punishing


I didn't think so like I said it is a form of demon worship - alcoholics worship baccus the god of partying even if they don't know his name & abortionists worship molech the god of baby-killing even if they don't know his name.

Asexual-Slut~Enya
legislation...not merely a matter of opinion


Did you ever hear of the "golden rule"? Whoever has the gold makes the rules - the other one is "right of might" - whoever has the bigger guns makes the rules. Any law if it is not agreeing with the bible in my opinion is just an opinion. Thats why the laws change because they have no absolute standard. As I said before the bible doesn't change (our interpretation/understanding however may).


Asexual-Slut~Enya
Just so we are clear, you believe that a person's perceived right to live supersedes another person's right to personal integrity/autonomy/domain, correct?

Could you explain why?


I thought I made it clear that it is a matter of opinion & that neither should override the other. I don't like the way you worded the question everyone should have a right to live whereas in my opinion the right to personal integrity/autonomy/domain is "percieved". Also in my opinion killing the baby would hurt rather than help one's integrity. The scripture says this "Why do ye not rather take wrong? why do ye not rather suffer yourselves to be defrauded?" 1 Cor 6:7b & "Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ." 2 Tim 2:3 So if you think that there is such a thing as a "right to abort/murder" then perhaps just perhaps you could meditate on these passages.

Asexual-Slut~Enya
As far as I am concerned, abortion and murder are not conceptually synonymous.


You have the right to your opinion.

Asexual-Slut~Enya
I find it odd that you would support the use of lethal force under circumstances that involve an unwanted intrusion of your physical property, but you don't support such force under circumstances that involve a direct intrusion of your own body. Can you explain?


I thougt I said "last resort" I would much rather subdue an intruder & let the police handle him/her & or let them take whatever they want & go. Also I would much rather prefer adoption to abortion except in cases where the mother's life is at risk & perhaps in rape & incest but as the statistics state - almost none of the abortions that are being had nowadays are due to either of those reasons.

Someone brought up a good point; as I am not a woman I really have no say - but someone else also brought up a good point; I am entitled to my opinion, I am just sharing mine - I don't mean to argue.


Asexual-Slut~Enya
What? You have provided no context for this particular quote and, further, you haven't even offered the name of the source from which this quote derives.

What am I supposed to make of this?


One hundred and thirty-ninth Psalm, verses number fifteen & sixteen; King James (Authorized) Version - feel free to read the whole psalm for the context I didn't provide it because it is my job to be "rightly dividing the word of truth." 2 Tim 2:15b

Asexual-Slut~Enya
And for those of us who do not ascribe to your faith? What reason do we have to adhere to your scriptures?


None whatsoever, except for the possibility that they are true.

Asexual-Slut~Enya
That isn't opinion -- it is medical fact (Well, it is debated; but, the premise is still rooted in empirical evidence.).


Anything is possible, I could be wrong; but as you stated it is debated (wether or not they feel pain).

Asexual-Slut~Enya
And that entitles it a right to the woman's bodily resources?


Umm I was just saying the same thing I have been - that it is alive & human.

Spiral Out
One could surmise that eating is tantamount to being an abortionist.


Except that God gives us permission to kill & eat animals ("Every moving thing that liveth shall be meat for you; even as the green herb have I given you all things." Gen 9:3); He does not give us permission to kill babies.

However He told me personally that if I want to go to the level that Adam had - "dominion" over the animals, then I personally need to stop eating animals.


Spiral Out
The fetus didn't ask the woman if it could live in her body. What gives it the right to stay there without her permission?


Except in cases of rape & (non-consesnting) incest you gave permission by having sex because pregnency is a consequence of having sex - if you steal & get busted do you think that you should be able to get out of jail free because you don't want to deal with the consequence of your actions?

Spiral Out
I'm against putting children up for adoption.


You would have aborted Jillian Barberie, Ted Danson, John Hancock, Ice-T, Jesse Jackson, Kamehameha II (& the IV, & the V), Lee Majors, Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela, Willie Nelson, Malcolm X, & a stack of other people that I personally think made the world a better place (including myself).

Spiral Out
Over half of the abortions performed are done son on women who used protection.


Didn't you read this?

"Fifty-four percent of women having abortions used a contraceptive method during the month they became pregnant. Among those women, 76% of pill users and 49% of condom users reported using their method inconsistently, while 13% of pill users and 14% of condom users reported correct use." - Jones RK, Darroch JE and Henshaw SK, Contraceptive use among U.S. women having abortions in 2000–2001, Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, 2002, 34(6):294–303.

A lot of the people who used contraceptives admitted to not using them properly all the time. So in actuallity less than half were using protection.


Nuri
Let us consider that up to 70% of fertilized eggs fail to implant, I guess menstruation really is murder.

I may be committing murder right now. Arrest me!


Menstration of a fertiulized egg is providence & not your fault - abortion is a deliberate act that is your fault.

If you are not married to your sex partner then you have much more pressing issues like fornication to repent of rather than worrying about menstrating fertilized eggs. If you are married to your sex partner then disregard this statement.


RedRoseSpiral
Care to explain how murder being a legal term is an opinion?


I already did above - I will repeat "Did you ever hear of the "golden rule"? Whoever has the gold makes the rules - the other one is "right of might" - whoever has the bigger guns makes the rules. Any law if it is not agreeing with the bible in my opinion is just an opinion. Thats why the laws change because they have no absolute standard. As I said before the bible doesn't change (our interpretation/understanding however may)."
 
     
 
Marauder, yes I am married to my sexual partner. I don't see how that was any of your business. The whole menstruation is murder came from anti-choicers who want to make a fertilized egg a lawful human. How would this effect law? Are there other laws that recognize that we can just flush out a lawful person unknowingly? That leaves a lot of muddle room.

And also. I do worship Bacchus. I am not a drunk partier. You may wish to revise your thinking.
     
Nuri
Marauder, yes I am married to my sexual partner. I don't see how that was any of your business. The whole menstruation is murder came from anti-choicers who want to make a fertilized egg a lawful human. How would this effect law? Are there other laws that recognize that we can just flush out a lawful person unknowingly? That leaves a lot of muddle room.

And also. I do worship Bacchus. I am not a drunk partier. You may wish to revise your thinking.


he's a typical ignorant anti-choicer. his arguments, i've heard them all before. it's just regurgitated bullshit.
 
     
 
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Nuri
Marauder, yes I am married to my sexual partner. I don't see how that was any of your business. The whole menstruation is murder came from anti-choicers who want to make a fertilized egg a lawful human. How would this effect law? Are there other laws that recognize that we can just flush out a lawful person unknowingly? That leaves a lot of muddle room.

And also. I do worship Bacchus. I am not a drunk partier. You may wish to revise your thinking.


he's a typical ignorant anti-choicer. his arguments, i've heard them all before. it's just regurgitated bullshit.


It's the Bacchus comment that got me, actually. I'm an introverted devotee. I party and drink only in my own head.
     
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Nuri
Marauder, yes I am married to my sexual partner. I don't see how that was any of your business. The whole menstruation is murder came from anti-choicers who want to make a fertilized egg a lawful human. How would this effect law? Are there other laws that recognize that we can just flush out a lawful person unknowingly? That leaves a lot of muddle room.

And also. I do worship Bacchus. I am not a drunk partier. You may wish to revise your thinking.


I didn't say that your marital status was any of my business - I did say if you were married then disregard the statement.

I already stated that I don't agree with laws that don't agree with the bible. If baby-killing was illegal then the law would agree with the bible; but because it isn't I don't care how or why the law gets changed back the other way; in fact I don't care if it ever changes because that is just one more reason that this country is deserving of judgement. I fully expect us to go the way of the roman empire & loose power eventually. There is a verse (Daniel 4:17) which tells me that the people in charge of the government will be the most criminal (basest) of men, & I found that to be true for the most part as almost everyone is complaining that our government officials are corrupt. As a result I don't expect the law to have our best interest at heart.

People can drink alcohol & not worship baccus - "Drink no longer water, but use a little wine for thy stomach’s sake and thine often infirmities." 1 Tim 5:23, but people who can't stop or do it to excess do worship him. I stated I believe in the bible & it tells me that worship to any other god besides the one true god is idolatry & I am supposed to run away from that - "Wherefore, my dearly beloved, flee from idolatry." 1 Cor 10:14. I am constantly revising my thinking as I am constantly learning new things (from the bible).


WitheringRoseOfDecay
regurgitated bullshit


Perhaps, but I consider myself a free thinker & I don't believe anything that I do just because someone told me to (in fact I disagree with most people in most churches about cirtain little things, I have one doctrine that nobody can handle that tells me that everyone should pray for the devil [to repent]), but because I did the personal research to my own satisfaction. In fact I doubt I heard most of my arguments before from any other source. So I made up most of my own regurgitated bullshit lol. As I stated before I believe that the bible is true & so if I am regurgitating anything it is scripture & scriptural principles. You are free to call scripture anything you want, including bullshit but I call it the word of God. Can we just agree to disagree? As I said before you are free to have your opinion. I just feel that I should also be free to have mine.
 
     

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Marauder_Slade

It is & because my ex had a miscarage I believe that I have a guaranteed child in heaven.


Funny, then, that you should presume that an abortion is an altogether awful experience for the embryo/fetus when there is no credible evidence to suggest that the embryo/fetus possesses cognizance to any degree.

Marauder_Slade

I didn't think so like I said it is a form of demon worship - alcoholics worship baccus the god of partying even if they don't know his name & abortionists worship molech the god of baby-killing even if they don't know his name.


Given that I value wisdom and knowledge, I must, necessarily, worship the various deities/incarnations of those attributes, correct?

And, further, because I also value various aesthetic qualities, I must, necessarily, worship the various deities/incarnations of beauty and symmetry, correct?

Hmm..., what else do I value? Well, there is quite a bit I could list -- so much, in fact, that I must, necessarily, worship nearly every imaginable deity/incarnation ever conceived, correct?

Doesn't that strike you as a tad silly to believe such things, especially when I see myself as an atheistic individual?

Marauder_Slade

Thats why the laws change because they have no absolute standard. As I said before the bible doesn't change (our interpretation/understanding however may).


Whether they are subject to change in the long-run is, in the short-run, fairly irrelevant -- though a law may change in the future, that does not exempt you from adhering to it in the present.

Such laws may represent nothing more than an "opinion" for you, but they are "opinions" you are obligated to follow -- unless, of course, you are willing to accept the repercussions that follow from breaking those "opinions."

Marauder_Slade

I thought I made it clear that it is a matter of opinion & that neither should override the other.


You are aware that what you believe "should" happen cannot occur in reality, correct?

Either the embryo/fetus is afforded the privilege/right to usurp a woman's right to bodily integrity/autonomy/domain, or a woman is afforded the privilege/right to take the life of the embryo/fetus.

There are no circumstances that fall in between -- at least not given our current medicinal advancements.

Marauder_Slade

I don't like the way you worded the question everyone should have a right to live whereas in my opinion the right to personal integrity/autonomy/domain is "percieved".


And, am I to presume, then, that you would be willing to legally mandate organ/blood donations under circumstances where doing so would save the life of another?

And, should I also presume that you would never, ever condone the judicious application of lethal force under circumstances that did not involve a direct threat to the victim's life? (Think: rape, burglary, kidnapping, non-aggravated assault and battery, etcetera.)

The fact is, if one cannot maintain final authority over their own bodily resources (read: their personal, bodily integrity/autonomy/domain) then what could they possibly claim to possess?

Marauder_Slade

Also in my opinion killing the baby would hurt rather than help one's integrity.


Oh, how so? Do bear in mind that, in the context of the discussion, we are referring to bodily integrity/autonomy/domain.

Marauder_Slade

So if you think that there is such a thing as a "right to abort/murder" then perhaps just perhaps you could meditate on these passages.


Why bother meditating on scripture I do not adhere to?

Marauder_Slade

I thougt I said "last resort" I would much rather subdue an intruder & let the police handle him/her & or let them take whatever they want & go.


The fact still remains, however, that you do support the judicious application of lethal force under circumstances that may, or may not, pose a direct threat to the life, or even personal integrity/autonomy/domain, of the victim in question.

How do you justify this when you would deny a woman the right to abort even though the embryo/fetus, if the woman does not desire to carry it to term, violates her bodily integrity/autonomy/domain in a direct fasihion?

Marauder_Slade

Also I would much rather prefer adoption to abortion except in cases where the mother's life is at risk & perhaps in rape & incest but as the statistics state - almost none of the abortions that are being had nowadays are due to either of those reasons.


You are aware that the adoption option only works ex post facto, correct? What good does this particular option do for a woman who does not desire to continue an undesired pregnancy, and wishes to forgo the pains and complications of childbirth and continued pregnancy?

Further, how could you possibly justify an abortion under circumstances that involve rape and incest, but not under other circumstances? Can you tell me the fundamental differences between an embryo/fetus conceived via rape that would warrant discrimination?

Marauder_Slade

Someone brought up a good point; as I am not a woman I really have no say - but someone else also brought up a good point; I am entitled to my opinion, I am just sharing mine - I don't mean to argue.


You are in a public debate forum -- arguments are going to happen.

Marauder_Slade

None whatsoever, except for the possibility that they are true.


I have no credible evidence to lead me to presume that it is true. Why should I adhere to standards that I deem outdated and unfair?

Marauder_Slade

Anything is possible, I could be wrong; but as you stated it is debated (wether or not they feel pain).


And, I repeat, though the issue is debated, the conclusions those institutions have drawn are based in empirical data analysis. There is a margin of error; however, it isn't as great as you'd probably like to believe it is.

Marauder_Slade

Umm I was just saying the same thing I have been - that it is alive & human.


Explain to me, then, why an embryo/fetus has, or, rather, should have a right to violate the bodily integrity/autonomy/domain of the woman in question?

Marauder_Slade

Except in cases of rape & (non-consesnting) incest you gave permission by having sex because pregnency is a consequence of having sex - if you steal & get busted do you think that you should be able to get out of jail free because you don't want to deal with the consequence of your actions?


"A consent to sexual intercourse does not imply a given consent to pregnancy or, further, to the continuation of said pregnancy should it occur."

Besides, an abortion is a means of dealing with the consequences -- it just so happens that it is a means that you do not like.

Marauder_Slade

You would have aborted Jillian Barberie, Ted Danson, John Hancock, Ice-T, Jesse Jackson, Kamehameha II (& the IV, & the V), Lee Majors, Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela, Willie Nelson, Malcolm X, & a stack of other people that I personally think made the world a better place (including myself).


Did their mothers desire an abortion at the time they were pregnant with these people? If so, then, yes, I would have gladly encouraged the woman to obtain the abortion if I were certain that is what she really wanted.

And, if through some cosmological error, I were to find myself pregnant, I would not hesitate to abort. I am not willing to raise a child and, quite frankly, I am not willing to undergo the pains that are common during pregnancy and childbirth.
     
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RedRoseSpiral
Care to explain how murder being a legal term is an opinion?


I already did above - I will repeat "Did you ever hear of the "golden rule"? Whoever has the gold makes the rules - the other one is "right of might" - whoever has the bigger guns makes the rules. Any law if it is not agreeing with the bible in my opinion is just an opinion. Thats why the laws change because they have no absolute standard. As I said before the bible doesn't change (our interpretation/understanding however may)."


This only works if you and the person you are debating is Christian and follows the bible. I am and do neither. So either start debating with fact or get the ******** off.
 
     
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My history class was having a discussion on this a few weeks ago, and we came to the conclusion that it really depends on the situation. Morally speaking...no, because that would be killing a life. I mean, if it was the girl's decision to have sex, then no, of course she shouldn't get an abortion because she knew of the possibility of pregnancy. She should be responsible for her own actions. However, the debate arises when a girl is raped. She should have the right to make the decision. If she feels the necessity to abort the child for her future's sake, then let her do so. However, if she does not wish to abort, then let her have the child. In doing so she has two choices: to raise the child or to send the child to an orphanage. It's a sad, but it's reality. There's an anime that reflects such a situation called Kodocha. It may only be an anime, but it's very touching and reflects many real life situations and how different people deal with them.
     
I know many people who believe abortion is wrong point out that you can put the child up for adoption...And while I respect your opinion, there are things you have to know about the foster care system in the United States.

Millions of children are never adopted, and at the age of 18, the foster care system is no longer responsible for them. They are essentially dumped on the street and left to their own devices.

Unfortunately, many people cannot see past race, so the child is less likely to be adopted if it is of a minority group.

While there are genuinely good foster parents, there are also cruel ones who only agree to be foster parents so they can get the money the system gives to them to take care of the child. Not to mention abusive foster parents, and people who are just not right for the job.

Because there are more options as far as fertility drugs go, more people who would've considered adopting a child are turning to fertility drugs instead.

The truth is, there are far, FAR more children in the foster care system than families who would be good foster parents for them. So while you may be giving the fetus a chance to live, that chance to live is quite possibly a chance to live an extremely hard, perhaps even traumatic childhood and/or life.
 
     
Hi. I'm Allison. 19. Sophomore in college (interactive design major).
 
I don't think abortion is right...

Abortion is murdering... killing someone who's innocent..

some countries allow this but others don't.

it's not a good isea to kill the fetus.
     
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Just popped in here to add an interesting verse I discovered in the Bible.

Ecclesiastes 6:3-5. Looks like somebody is supporting quality of life over quantity of life in teh Bible thar.
 
     
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